Please tell me I’m not alone 😭😭

Hi! I’m a FTM and lately have been experiencing derealization/depersonalization. Some days it’s so bad other days not so much, I love my baby she’s my entire world and I’m so scared I’m losing my mind. I also have anxiety and most days hate to be alone because it just feels so heavy at home so I tend to leave the house a lot with her. Does anyone know why this happens and ways to help ? I’m meeting with a therapist in a couple weeks :( I just want to feel better.

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You are not alone!!
I am also feeling g the same way. I am taking next year off to be a SAHM(dont get me wrong, I know this is a blessing and not eveyone has the option for this).
However, I am so nervous about being at home so much, I am going to feel so disconnected from the world..... I am trying to find ways to get out and do stuff....
That is awesome you are seeing someone, that is something I need to look into.
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I dont know how this app works, but you can add if you need someone to talk to!

I would definitely reach out to get on medication to support this transition. You are not the only one and postpartum is extremely difficult. I went through postpartum psychosis myself, but having support even if it means a therapist or getting on medication sooner than later is definitely so helpful. I know it’s not one size fits all I’m so proud of you for taking the first step and seeking support you’re not alone. ❤️

And these feelings, do not mean you love your baby any less

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Is this unusual to say and feel ?

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