Help please

Can I ask what you would want to say x

If hes acting this way now... I guarantee you youre going to end up a single mum and way more heartbroken down the line.

We dont have the choice to just give up, we carry the baby as well as going through such a significant change in our lives, he is not going to survive fatherhood nor post partum you.. please consider holding your head high, giving him one chance only and asking him if he is going to be a present father or not.

Its important you have a good support network

Im really sorry youre going through this. It must be very overwhelming for both of you and it seems he not dealing with it very well. Hopefully you can still have a nice relationship even if it's not the classic romantic relationship for now and can focus on the baby and coparent together. There's clearly love and respect there so hopefully you can count on him with the baby. Lean on your friends and family aswell as im sure there are other people wanting to support you xx

It sounds like he may have got cold feet but what he is doing is not fair on you. My advice is to focus on you and your baby and what you need right now. Is there a friend or family you can phone or who lives nearby you can go to for support? X

I’m really sorry you’re going through this and I can only imagine how confusing and difficult it must be. But you have to focus on you and your baby girl, she will give you all the strength you need and you will both be fine xx