It's not toward the baby but my husband
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Haven’t figured that one out yet. Might just get rid of the husband 💅

I would honestly just be transparent ab it. Let him know what’s triggering/weighing on you. I’ve been debating therapy.

Gratitude is the opposite of anger. You can't be grateful and be angry at the same time. The fact that we are alive today, right now at this moment and our babies are alive is truly a blessing. The husbands are a blessing too, more often than not, their presence does more than we realise. And parenthood is definitely harder alone than having a partner.

Let me know when you've figured it out 🤣

Yes I had bad pregnancy rage towards my husband and when baby was born it went a way a bit. I still get annoyed but I would be transparent sometimes we need more space.

Gosh same. I feel like we have the same conversations and im so tired of explaining myself. I just get so angry all the time.

I broke my issues down into sections, then tackled them from most important/ bothersome to least. Spoke with him when we weren't super stressed. When we hit a snag, we spoke with our premarital counselor.

Yes! I am so angry and resentful.

Beat him up

Overcommunicate! Dealing with the same thing. I really think it can only get better when you’re able to express what’s making you angry instead of just sitting with it. Your anger is trying to tell you something, so hopefully you can get to the root of it (lack of support, decreasing romance, burnout, having to repeat yourself, etc.) and figure out together what needs to change so you both feel more supported.
My husband and I are reading His Needs, Her Needs together (one chapter a week) and hoping it helps. We just started, so TBD.

I’ve been sleeping on the couch and making him play single parent til I get an apology for him talking to me like im stupid
Just had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago, we lost the baby at 27 weeks,
my friend is staying who I haven’t seen since before I fell pregnant, she’s just had a baby and brought him to stay, but I feel I’m always crying about her baby, and getting emotional, we haven’t dine one nice thing as I’m bed rotting most of the day!
So tell me do I need to get a grip or do I have the right to feel upset x
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I’m 19 weeks and my boobs before pregnancy were 30dd and now they’ve gotten even more massive and heavy. I’m non-binary and sometimes my boobs give me gender dysphoria. Usually I use binders from Spectrum Outfitters but I can’t fit into them anymore. I’m wondering if there’s any binders that are good for in pregnancy. My boobs feel like ROCKS!! I don’t even think I could achieve a flat chest with a binder but anything that can make them flatter would be nice.
I know this is a really niche question 🥲 Any help is appreciated.
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Can someone send me reliable academic and peer reviewed links to research which shows that the cry it out method damages children’s mental health please.
While we haven’t and don’t plan to do CIO, I see so many comments from people stating things like it damages mental and quite frankly really horrible comments to parents asking questions about it without including the scientific evidence. It’s not fair to judge other parents choices.
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How do moms with bpd deal with it. I don’t struggle with my daughter at all but more with other people around me like the guy I’m talking to and family. I try to go without medicine but I feel like I just screw everything up. She doesn’t aggravate me or anything I just struggle with the other people. Should I go back on my medicine or is it normal to be so annoyed with people around me .
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It's not toward the baby but my husband
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I know this sound like a wierd question but I'm trying to understand myself.
I barely cry over myself or my own problems. I would say probs about once a year or so when I'm feeling super overwhelmed or if I'm feeling lonely.
Don't get me wrong, show me a social media post of injustice or someones healing story and I will cry.
But like for meee.. If I'm feeling stressed, upset etc. You will never catch me crying over a man either. I've always had that oh wells what will be will be.
I'm also a very blunt and direct person. I find myself often in the position of listening to everyone's problems and giving them advice.
I just wonder if there is anyone out there similar to me....
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