What would you do? If you've been trying for a baby for 4-5years and doing rounds of IVF, and just started a new round hoping this egg will take but would mean you'd be 6 weeks post partum at your wedding ?
Would you just commit to it all?
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Hey, I think 6 weeks postpartum may be quite difficult, are you able to push back the wedding a bit? Xx

Have you put deposits down on wedding stuff? I personally would move it about a year out. I would want to feel my best and have time to prep mentally and physically for my wedding, photos etc. I don’t think I’d feel my best at 6 wks pp although everyone’s bounce back is different!

I would put the dream of a baby first. I wouldn’t wait around as your fertility has a timeline. The wedding can wait. Sending you baby dust. 💕
My son is 6 mouths old now and my mother im law is pressuring me to got mother and baby groups but im kind of shy too , im a very outgoing person but since having my baby in Georgia and being alone for the first 4 months I feel like iv lost my confidence, or im scared of not being welcome or something because I didn't give birth , im concerned that am I holding him back because im to nervous to go to them . I don't know why im finding it a struggle to get out there but I am

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What would you do? If you've been trying for a baby for 4-5years and doing rounds of IVF, and just started a new round hoping this egg will take but would mean you'd be 6 weeks post partum at your wedding ?
Would you just commit to it all?
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Trying for baby number 2 thoughts on this test reading as positive as I have line eyes !✨🥹
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I had a FET and been testing negative. Can anyone tell me if they can see a faint line or am I out of the game?
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Two tests I took had faint lines then the one I took today said negative what does that mean
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To the Moms who have no village- no help to step in at all- how do you do it?
We’ve been very fortunate to have always had regular help from my in-laws but due to ill health that help is no longer available. We were so extremely grateful for their help and often found ourselves saying we don’t know how we’d do this without them. I know the privilege that is and it most definitely wasn’t taken for granted
I’m extremely nervous about it. In the most difficult of days, I had a countdown in my head to those days they’d come give us a break and that helped me so much. Now there is no countdown and there is no break and I’ve never had to do this before
Any practical advice would be greatly appreciated; I have a 6 month old and a 2 year old
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