I am pregnant with his son I’m not happy all the time it’s draining !!! And he isn’t making it any better doesn’t consider me at all! He hasn’t slept in the bed or spent any time with me in a while he just plays his stupid game all the time and recently just started work! It’s just like if you feel like you need space so bad to that point why are you even here ????
Anyways he left because we had a small argument regarding the WiFi and I didn’t want him to pay for it I rather pay for it when I get paid. because if you can’t even spend time with me etc why should I make it able for you to play your game ? Idc if it sounds petty or not. I’m tired of being nice and a mf can’t even consider me at the end of the day! I want my son but I don’t want to struggle I already have a toddler and I’m not about to do it alone ! I’m over the relationship shit! Then says he doesn’t spend time with me etc because we argue … he literally does shit intentionally to piss me off and of course I’m going to react!!! I can’t stand when people play victim like they just never do anything wrong . Like you do plenty of things that pisses me off but I never not spend time with you!!! And act like u don’t exist! Like if you wanna be by yourself you can always leave no point of being in my house !
He was so quick to leave so it’s just seemed like he didn’t wanna be here anyway you already stopped doing certain things with me & only wanna be nice or consider me when you want me to do something for you.
Also he does have a history of trying to throw certain situations in my face that’s why I rejected him paying for the WiFi he really only wanted to pay for it because he wants to play his game anyways…
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Hi love, I’m sorry you are going through this. I am not getting along with my baby daddy either and he’s blocked. I just want to remind you that what the father does has nothing to do with your precious baby it is not the baby’s fault and that’s a human being growing inside of you and will be a huge blessing regardless of the father whether you decide to keep the baby or not. There are a lot of options to give the baby up to adoption or foster care if you decide you can’t do it. I highly encourage you to find groups & communities that can uplift you & guide you. Live action also has a hotline you can call to get you through the hard times. You got this mama 🙏🏻❤️

I am a mom of 2 . It’s hard but comes to me easily if you understand. I do it but mentally it’s draining a bit . So worth it , I love my 2nd baby so much. Her father not so much . I feel that I would be better off without . When he leaves for work I do what needs to be done with my kids and I have no extra stress . Im not worrying about what a mf ain’t doing rn , im just doing it cause it’s my job and im a good mom . Sometimes I feel like hes a mirror trying to reflect his shitty actions on me , and once he’s gone and away from me I can finally see myself and the situation for what it really is . I’m not pro life but I am pro happiness. Leave him if he’s a shitty partner but I would weigh your options and see what you truly think is best for you , just because you break up with your partner doesn’t mean you’ll always be a single parent . It doesn’t even mean you’ll be single when you go into that delivery room . I met my partner and kids dad when I was going through a miscarriage.

You don’t want to get rid of your baby—you’re angry at your man, and you’re putting an innocent unborn child in the middle of grown relationship problems. If he ignores you, plays games all day, doesn’t contribute, and makes you miserable, then leave him. But your son didn’t do anything to you. Nobody wants to struggle, but having a baby doesn’t come with a guarantee that the relationship will last or that the father will make motherhood easier. If you genuinely don’t want another child, that’s a serious decision to make based on whether you want this baby, not whether his father is pissing you off right now. Stop making your unborn child collateral damage in a relationship he had absolutely no part in creating.

Leave him not leave your baby

The relationship isn't making you happy to the point you want to abandon your baby...isnt that enough to realise who the real problem is? its him not the baby.
Resentment is what you're going through,
I don’t have anyone no family that supports me no friends nothing nobody idk how I am going to do this💔 I am going to be in my labor room alone 💔 with a toddler
So my partner used to work in a bar. But he quit because of me. Months later he just text me sayin his boss text him sayin they are short staffed and could he do a one off this weekend. I said I was not happy at all about this. As I know it will just be full of drunk girls flirting. What do I do??
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Hi everyone Im a first time mom 21 (turning 22 tomorrow) (first time pregnancy ever) Im a month along and I currently in a rock in a hard place, my partner has been stressing me out and has been making me feel like I’m lesser than. I been thinking about leaving and taking the pill to allow us to go out separate ways. Ive been trying to make it work between us but it’s getting worse, my mom said men like when you are mean to them and she’s right 😭 ive been nice to him and Hes been treating me worse vs when we first met. Help I need advice please
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I’m trying not worry as I know they can go through phases where very little gets eaten. However I feel like I’m living with an air plant! He’s not poorly, no new teeth and is other wise ok. Except for the usual toddler mood swings that are definitely getting exasperated by him probably being hungry. Yesterday was a good food day and he was definitely happier which is also incredibly frustrating. I’m listening and looking out for hunger signs and I’ve being kind by giving him all his fail safe favourites but he’s only happy eating sliced ham, cucumber, carrot sticks, pears and berries.
Tomorrow I’m trying a different tactic and just going to try him with loads of new foods to see if that sparks any sorta curiosity. It’s hard not to worry when they only graze on very little throughout the day.
Any words of comfort would be appreciated 🥺
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Anyone awake ?
Just finding life a bit difficult with my daughter’s dad she’s 2 years old.
We have been having ups and downs recently but mainly ups we have had good days out and been a good family unit.
But as of the other night we had a child free night and went for a couple of drinks he had messaged his boss asking to have a chat with him on Monday morning about doing some job. But his boss rang him near enough straight away ( probably worrying that he wasn’t able to do the job or there was something wrong ) which is perfectly normal anyways they got chatting and it ended up with him being nearly an hour on the phone. During this I was just stood outset near him but he kept moving away and stuff so I couldn’t hear the conversation.
Ok but if it’s about work he is normally very open about it and will tell me most things. I just thought surly he can sit at a table outside with a drink with me and have this conversation.
So we had a bit of a disagreement outside the pub had a drink and left for home for when we got home our daughter was still awake so we got her to bed but he didn’t say one word to me all evening and he was on his phone messaging his boss.
I didn’t think much of it expect it was a text messaged at 10pm and it was a long message. I didn’t ask to see what he had said or anything
Roll on to today I had a look on his phone and the message contains him saying to his boss that “ things arnt stable at home “ and “ I’m finding it hard to leave “
Which just made me think wow
After he says all the time he wants to be with me and make everything work out as a little family .
Should I be going mental that he is saying these things to his boss and like making out to his boss and probably all his other work people that he doesn’t wanna be with me anything
I just feel it is very muggy after everything I do is for him and his daughter while he still carries on a normal life.
He won’t talk to me about it he just says I’ve read it wrong and that I should just shut up going on about it. But now he has changed his password on his phone and won’t let me anywhere near it
While he is now peacefully asleep

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I cried in a northern reflections kids (Canadians will know) while modeling stuff for my family. Just in tears the whole time.

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I’ve just got my son’s first nursery invoice and I’d love some help with understanding. He’s in 4 full days a week, term time only. I was of the understanding he’d get the full 30 hours as it wasn’t spread over 52 weeks. However on the invoice, 4 full days totals 42 hours, of which only 22hr24mins are funded and I have to pay the remaining 19hr36mins. Does this sound right??
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