Due to my husband’s work commitments etc, i dont get to bd throughout ny whole cycle every 2/3 days. We do our very best to do it like every other day in fertile window. This in itself i feel like it stressful to achieve but we are making it work and i felt quite pleased about that. My friend said we should do it a lot more but i cant make that happen. Do you think im doing enough? Anyone else just focus on a few times in the fertile window , and had success? Thankyou x
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Stressing about it won’t help. You’re doing everything you can to make sure you’re healthy (eating, exercising, hydrated, etc) and rested and intimate. Are you tracking your temp? Your basal body temp confirms when your ovulation occurs. Maybe try that if you’re not. Otherwise be easy on yourself.

Every other day in the fertile window sounds good! If you’re using ovulation strips, I’d definitely just try to at least hit the day of the surge or the day after!
My last IVF baby after 8 years on the journey to get my 3 boys (all donor concieved).
I really have been connected to the name Tane (tah-ne) for cultural reasons (maori backgorund) but also because I have carried the name through my whole IVF journey and wanted to call my first son this name.
Fast forward to my 3rd son and I would like to call my 3rd child this name as it will be my last child I will be carrying.
My partner wants to call him Ari and started a massive fight in hopsital 2 days PP saying I will never be able to call the child that name.
I now have an un named 2 week old son and its starting to really get me down. I feel like I can't bring up the topic or speak about it without a massive fight and i feel so fragile atm im afraid I will just give in.
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Has anyone had the o shot and how does it work. I have never had an orgasm and sex with a man has never even gotten me close. When I masturbate I do get sensation and sometimes feel like I’m getting close but never achieve and with a man I just don’t get a tingle. Yes I have multiple children but idk what’s wrong.
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Me and my husband think we want to start trying again but I’m so overwhelmed with how difficult it will be with two! (And we have a very easy baby now)
Is anyone else in the same boat? Has anyone got two under two?
Friendly advise / opinions please 🙏🏼😅
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Due to my husband’s work commitments etc, i dont get to bd throughout ny whole cycle every 2/3 days. We do our very best to do it like every other day in fertile window. This in itself i feel like it stressful to achieve but we are making it work and i felt quite pleased about that. My friend said we should do it a lot more but i cant make that happen. Do you think im doing enough? Anyone else just focus on a few times in the fertile window , and had success? Thankyou x
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Does anyone see anything at all????
Ive been having strangest feeling like im pregnant, for days ive taken test after test and to eyes first glance their negative but then I think I see a line but cannot tell
Im supposed to start my period on the 26th this month but it’s starting to feel like these have been negative all this time and my eyes and body have been deceiving me all this time ☹️
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What’s the earliest someone has had a positive pregnancy test? I am 9 DPO today but am due on my period on Thursday. (Tue today)
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