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I really dislike talking to my husband about appointments my son has. My son goes to therapy twice a week minus the other specialty dr appointments any ways every time I talk to my husband about it’s like I’m talking to a child we only have 1 car he works morning Tuesday- Sunday and Thursday- Sunday at night I also don’t have my drivers license anyways I’ve been told him I could take the medical cabs when my son has appointments and bring my youngest with us but he told me not to do that and every time we have to miss appointments I always make sure to ask him if I need to reschedule any appointments but he acts like a child he’s always like when the day comes we will worry about that I’m the day is never promised and my thing is people got set schedules other people don’t run off our times if stuff happens and that shit pisses me off so bad

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So start taking the cabs. Just start being the adult in the relationship and when he cries, ans clearly he will, you can tell him it's cause hes unreliable atm. When he can make these appointments a priority you can talk about it again.

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I think start taking the cab, put your little ones appointment as a priority! X

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I would start taking it. A child appointment is very important. And u tried to listen to him but he unreliable. As long as it doesnt cost or set u back financially id do it

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I hate my life!!!!

I hate my life!!!

I love my daughter and I do love my partner but my god he is so fucking lazy.
I know he works hard for us but why does everything have to fall on me to do as im a stay at home mum

I dont get breaks, my family isnt close by but my partners family live 10 mins away and they barely help and dont take any notice of our daughter

Im pregnant with our second and i dont know if im happy about it or really even want the baby even though we was trying for the baby.

My partner doesnt know how to cook, never cleans or knows how to do washing, his mum did everything for him, she said its cause she loves her kids but that doesnt help them in the future, he cant even pick up after himself, his bedside table is full of cans and stay for months until I get fed up and clean them cause he never does it cause hes never had to. I thought living together after 2 years he'd learn to change but he is still the same and im exhausted


im left to do everything even with our daughter she is 15 months old and he has given her a bath about 10 times and has moaned everytime ive asked him to do it

I just dont know how I'm going to cope with the second baby, I dont really have any friends and I dont leave the house often as we live in a little village with rubbish transport and i dont drive so nothing is close by.

Ive jusy had an argument with my partner and saod I was going to bed early and left him with our daughter and within 10 mins hes brought her up to our bed as she isnt sleeping in her room and sleeps in our bed

I don't even get 10 minutes to myself 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

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AITA?

We're on a family holiday and my toddler woke up early as always so I got up to play with him. My husband slept in then when I was wanting to get breakfast sorted he was watching TikTok videos.

I made a comment about how we should maybe have a basket for phones as we're on holiday and he said that I was being controlling when holidays are for relaxing.

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When did you introduce your little one to cartoons? I don’t want an iPad kid but to see what they like. My baby likes Mickey Mouse and the Mickey Mouse clubhouse

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I really dislike talking to my husband about appointments my son has. My son goes to therapy twice a week minus the other specialty dr appointments any ways every time I talk to my husband about it’s like I’m talking to a child we only have 1 car he works morning Tuesday- Sunday and Thursday- Sunday at night I also don’t have my drivers license anyways I’ve been told him I could take the medical cabs when my son has appointments and bring my youngest with us but he told me not to do that and every time we have to miss appointments I always make sure to ask him if I need to reschedule any appointments but he acts like a child he’s always like when the day comes we will worry about that I’m the day is never promised and my thing is people got set schedules other people don’t run off our times if stuff happens and that shit pisses me off so bad

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Tired and alone

My husband and I have a 6 month old and both work full time on opposite schedules. We dont get a lot of time together, so I thought that when he came home early, we would hang out, I would get a little break before having to watch the baby the rest of the night so he can do work stuff. So why does he spend the majority of the time we have very little of, to lay in bed and look at his phone. Over an hour. That could have been spent with his wife and child. I just dont want to have to ask to be seen. I want him to want to spend his time with us, not because I ask him to. If he doesn't think of us, are we really that important to him in the first place? If I have to ask him to hang out with me, what's the point of him even being here for the extra couple hours that we got? I dont know. Am i reading too much into this?

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Help

I need some advice what to do. My youngest just laughs at me when I tell her no 🤦🏽‍♀️ she is only 1.5 but I don’t remember it being this bad with my eldest. She’s constantly climbing on the radiator onto the window cill. She even fell off and hurt herself 2 minutes later she’s back again. I feel like the more o say no the more she sees it as a challenge. I’m about to get rid of m dining table and she climbs on that a hundred times a day I’ve tried removing the chairs but she carries toys to use. Usually I catch her and stop her but if I’m changing her sister’s nappy or going for a wee she sees that as her perfect opportunity 🤦🏽‍♀️.

I did raise my voice and said no and she started laughing her sister started crying saying sorry mummy 😅 so then I felt instant guilt. I just have no idea how to get her to listen or do I just have to wait and hope she grows out if it 😣

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