Am I wrong?

I am having a kids birthday party in a month and my sister wants to bring her new bf who is a coke head. I am inviting friends and their kids so I dont want some random man in my house. I told her no and now she is saying she is not coming. (She first tried to say she will just drop off a gift but I said no because I have had to explain to my kids since june why she has not seen their new house or seen them at all and I dont want to explain she is choosing a penis over her nephews)

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I know this is silly ... But feel like I failed this pregnancy because of a decision I made with my first

I had my consultation today with regards to this 2nd pregnancy and birth options. With everything going on and previous elective, it was the best decision to book another C-Section. I know based on all the medical info, my anxiety and how hard this pregnancy has been, it's the overall best decision. However.... I feel like because I let fear take over my first pregnancy, that I failed myself this pregnancy 😞 I was hoping for a VBAC at the beginning, but that was before all the issues. I just can't help the disappointment and self blame. Sorry for the rant and open to any advice or what not ❤️

Belly pouch

After having a c-section I’ve been left with an over hanging pouch which I find disgusting and is making me feel really depressed. Does this go or does it stay? If so any tips to get rid? Used a belly band but no difference. 😭😭

Measuring large - 95th percentile

Hi mums and mums to be! I am 28 weeks pregnant and measured 90th percentile at my midwife appointment. I got referred for a growth scan and apparently she is 95th percentile!

Does anyone have experience of this and what happens next? I was almost expecting it as I am quite tall and was a heavy baby myself but just want some examples of what happened next for you ie did you have a cesarean or induced early?

What is going on

At nearly 33 weeks and the last couple of days I have just felt really off. Being feeling sick and actually threw up after eating this morning. And have also just been extremely emotional and am falling out with my partner as a result. I’m sure this is completely normal but I just need someone to tell me I’m not going insane.

Fertility issues after c-section

Hi, has anyone experienced issues with TTC for baby number 2 after having had a c-section previously? I have recently had a transvaginal scan and the doctor discovered I had a c-section ‘niche’ where the internal scar tissue has not healed correctly, and therefore fluid is gathering there. Apparently it can happen to some women after c-sections but a relatively new discovery and little research done on it. I wondered if anyone else has experienced this?! As I feel totally alone in this..

My husbands 30th

Hi everyone! It’s my husbands 30th at the end of October and I wanna do something special for him. Mainly to show him how much I appreciate him cause he works full time and I get to stay at home with the kiddos 🥺🥰. He says he would be happy with a walk and some food after it but I can’t bring myself just to do that😂🫢. I’m sure one of my love languages is gift giving if that either a thing 😂😂