Prek potty train issue with teachers

My toddler has two teachers and one of them told me my girl has been holding in her pee,but at home she tells me she has to pee. She did just stsrt the prek, so am sure she is not comfortable yet,but i can't help,but to worry. I think they stress her with her potty training. At home I do every hour, or she does her wiggle dance and I ask her. She will shyly say yes. I don't stress walking to her potty and will ask her questions that help the process. She sometimes stay in her potty longer with me cause I tell her listen to ur body. She will listen to her body cause even when I say time up she will say no almost and would do pee or poo. She does not tell her teachers when she has to go potty. I was told they make her go every 30 minutes and one of the teachers am sorry use a really mean tone that I feel is making it harder for her to feel comfortable. The teacher told me to keep working with her,but am like she does great with me. She even tells her aunt when she has to use the potty so am like. Idk what to say. How should I approach this. My girl loves going to prek, I want to help my girl and how do I communicate it to her teacher?

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Does you girl pee in the school on the floor? Is that why they are complaining? If she does well with you tell them what they need to do to continue the same structure for your daughter. And not confuse her and force her to sit every 30 min if there's no need for it. Dont let them talk down to you. Talk to them with authority. Ask you daughter how she feels about the teachers.

She did pee on the carpet and a couple of times in the playground. I will message them today, cause I wanted to talk to my husband's grandma, she use to work in the same building and she also feels they are stressing her out. I will ask my girl.

When my daughter was started potty training and she was fine at home, but I still was giving her training diapers at school for a few weeks until she was fully confident and refuses diapers.

I work with pre-k. It used to be a requirement that children be potty trained, but that went away. Putting her on the Potty every 30 minutes when she isn’t verbalizing when she has to go and to prevent accidents isn’t exactly out of practice. Her being great at home doesn’t help her habits at school. Depending on the frequency of habits i would suggest pull ups until she is comfortable.

I would do pull ups,but they were the once who said undies. Like I said my husband grandma use to also work at a prek and feels thier making it difficult. I told them already how we do it at home. The words and signs we use. I started the potty training before she started prek too.i do plan to talk to them again and to my girl.

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