First time stay at home mom.

I think a lot of SAHMs feel the exact same way. But if you were working and your child was in daycare you would more than likely be paying a lot of money every month. It’s important to remember that your job is the most important (taking care of your baby).

This is my exact situation. Talk to your husband about it because I didn’t and later on it caused so many problems. What we do is definitely a job but sometimes they don’t see it that way. Maybe you could sell things on fb marketplace to earn extra spending money. If it’s agreed on though that u are at home with your child, he should definitely be providing for the things you need though.

I completely understand where you’re coming from ❤️ My baby daddy works 4 days a week and pays most of the bills, and even though I’m a SAHM, I still like having my own little income too. I do side hustles like selling on Vinted and participating in some online TikTok challenges, so I can have money for things I want/need without feeling like I’m depending on him for everything. 🥹💕 but he has been paying lately. It definitely took some adjusting for me too because I’m used to having my own money and being independent. Just know you’re absolutely not alone in feeling this way. Being a SAHM is already a full-time job, and you ARE doing enough. Give yourself some grace while you’re figuring everything out. 🫶🏼💕