Looking for a best friend

Hello, I am 29 years old from Texas looking for a bestie or someone who I can text. It's lonely over here :/

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Ft/texting!!

Looking for friends to text or ft! I’m in TN but im down for in state or out of state friends!! I have a 2 yr old son and a boyfriend!! We play call of duty and are 420 friendly!

WFH full-time with infant and wondering what age did your toddler “get hard”. Think, loud tantrums.

I worked from home with my 1st until the new school new started at daycare (14.5m old). She has been 5 days a week 9-3pm ever since. She got harder at 17/18m but I also fell pregnant then and have an awful first trimester….

I’ve been working from home w my 2nd (and last baby) who is now 12.5m old. The new school year started and I simply don’t want to send her. Trying to figure out if I can last another 9 months working from home with her (probably not). Thinking to only start her at 15 months (and pay for the next 3 months to hold her spot), then have her go 3 days a week.

Really struggling w this decision!

My boyfriend was excited when I got pregnant because then I would get horny.

Idk if this is a thing for some people or not but id never heard of this until he said it. Apparently pregnant women crave sex more, like they are addicted or something. He couldn't wait for this "phase". I was like, thats what you are the most excited about right now?

Lost Bestie

Did anyone else move to a new city and have a baby and their best friend of 15 years just stopped talking to them… I stopped putting in the effort to see if it was as one sided as I thought and I haven’t talked to her since.. I had a baby and no check ins or anything? I helped her raise her 7 and 10 year old… idk crazy… am I alone here?

Heartbroken

I really need some advice because I feel completely lost.

I’m sorry this is long, but I honestly don’t know where else to turn.

I have a baby with my partner, and recently I found out that he has got another woman pregnant. I am absolutely devastated. There were also messages between them that I have seen, and some of the things I read have completely destroyed my trust in him.

He tells me that he doesn’t love her, doesn’t want anything to do with her and that they are no longer in contact. But after everything that has happened, I genuinely don’t know how I am supposed to believe anything he says anymore.

What makes it even harder is that when I try to talk to him about it, he gets angry with me for crying or being upset and tells me I’m being “mental” and that I’m overreacting. He has also said that because we aren’t technically together, he is allowed to go out. Tonight, for example, he is going to the same pub where he met this woman, with the same friends who enabled what happened before. I told him how incredibly disrespectful that feels to me, especially while I am still trying to process everything, and his response was essentially that we aren’t together so he can do what he wants.

I honestly don’t know what I want anymore. I love him, but I don’t think I can ever trust him again. At the same time, I’m struggling to accept the idea of breaking up my baby’s family. I never wanted my child to grow up in this situation.

My biggest problem is that I feel trapped financially.

I have around £13,000 of debt and take home approximately £2,329.89 a month. I’m a teacher and have to return to work on 1st September. I currently have roughly £500 a month going towards debt, alongside childcare, food, baby expenses, transport and other bills.

I have spoken to Citizens Advice and they suggested a Debt Management Plan, but I’m terrified of what that could mean for my credit and my ability to eventually get somewhere for me and my baby.

I keep thinking that I just want to pack a bag, take my baby and leave, but I have nowhere to go and I don’t know how I would financially manage on my own.

I feel completely broken and overwhelmed. I’m trying to be strong for my baby, but I genuinely don’t know what my next step should be.

If anyone has been in a similar situation, I would really appreciate honest advice — particularly about leaving with a baby when you’re financially trapped, debt management, housing, benefits/support I might be entitled to, and how you actually start rebuilding your life when you feel like you have absolutely nothing figured out.

Please be kind. I’m already struggling more than I can put into words.

Distancing from best friend

She's done a lot and i've made the decision to back away from the friendship.

Do I tell her or just freeze her out? Ive had multiple conversations over the years and she apologises, plays victim then does it all over again.