Hey girls, I was diagnosed with hyper mobility over a year ago. Been looking at how this affects me during pregnancy and honestly one thing I can’t wrap my head around is that when your hypermobile your more aware of the feelings in your body and it’s normal for you to be anxious of hearing your heart beat. I had a panic attack yesterday and I’m 100% putting it down to this now. I used to get anxious when I ran up stairs and could feel my heart beat faster before pregnancy but now with all these hormones and I think your heart rate increases in pregnancy too it’s like a constant anxious feeling! It’s horrible. I keep trying to remind my self it’s hormones and I’m gonna be fine but honestly I’m finding it hard. I’ve also started getting alot more pain in my hips. Can’t believe I’m only 6 weeks today 🤣 any other hypermobile girlies with any advice??
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Yeah! The heartbeat was the first thing I noticed, before I got a positive test! That was my first sign something was different in my body and it was a bit spooky to literally be able to see my heartbeat up and down through my chest.
Now I'm 5 months postpartum and I have that as a really fond intimate private memory. My body was making all this extra blood to make a home for my little daughter.
As for hyper mobility (me too), I say lean in to your super power here. Few things are more valuable (besides mindset) in a vaginal birth than flexibility. Do you do yoga? I did deep stretch yoga particularly for hip mobility most days all through my pregnancy, so I was able to do yoga during labour which my midwife loved and helped a lot to get my daughter out as cleanly and smoothly as possible.
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As for panic attacks, the hormones have a lot to answer for. I had a few emotional meltdowns early doors. 🤗

I wasn’t diagnosed until after both pregnancies but so much makes sense now lol by 20 weeks I’m convinced my hips weren’t even attached anymore. I had terrible pubic disfunction and even just putting shoes on was awful. I had so many weird heart rate things that got worse (likely pots but not diagnosed luckily after my last pregnancy I haven’t had any issues). Things that saved me was meditation to calm myself and a yoga ball for pain. It is never too early!
With my first I was about 17 weeks
With my second I was 3 weeks
With my third I was also about 3 weeks but still tbc 😂
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I’ve just found out I’m 7 weeks pregnant. Our first is pretty much 10 months.
Half of me is so happy because I know our son would love a sibling. He loves other kids and is so interested when he’s around other little ones.
We definitely want to have more than one. I feel as though I’ve really found my feet being a mum, after a pretty rough time to begin with. I couldn’t imagine going back to my previous life, of course some elements I desperately miss but it’s only fleeting.
The other half of me is terrified! I’m so happy with our current situation and nervous change will affect everyone forever. We have such a cute bond with our son and I’m scared of that changing and not being able to turn back. I’m worried about how it will affect him developmentally as it’ll only be 16 months between them. And I know how important the bond is between a child and their parents before the age of 3.
It took us 3 years to fall pregnant with our first and of course it happens first time with our second!
Any advice positive and negative would be greatly appreciated. I’m open to it all! Good and bad 🤍
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I’m 6 months PP. I’m BF. Desire is still pretty low for me, but I’m willing for hubs. When will I stop being so dry & feel like me again? lol I don’t know this body!
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Even though I know what to expect and what happens... I am having more anxiety this time around. It's not even about being on my own overnight or anything like that. I just find myself constantly checking my notes to see if I was given a date yet, triple checking things I know that are already done and fine, constantly going on the NHS site about details for a 2nd one... It probably has a lot to do with having a toddler now, but I just thought I would be more calm? My husband keeps reassuring me and I know I will have his help afterwards, but it wont go away. Maybe once I am given a date I will feel better, as I have my pre-op this Wednesday. Has anyone ever felt this way?

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Hey girls, I was diagnosed with hyper mobility over a year ago. Been looking at how this affects me during pregnancy and honestly one thing I can’t wrap my head around is that when your hypermobile your more aware of the feelings in your body and it’s normal for you to be anxious of hearing your heart beat. I had a panic attack yesterday and I’m 100% putting it down to this now. I used to get anxious when I ran up stairs and could feel my heart beat faster before pregnancy but now with all these hormones and I think your heart rate increases in pregnancy too it’s like a constant anxious feeling! It’s horrible. I keep trying to remind my self it’s hormones and I’m gonna be fine but honestly I’m finding it hard. I’ve also started getting alot more pain in my hips. Can’t believe I’m only 6 weeks today 🤣 any other hypermobile girlies with any advice??

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Hi! So this was NOT planned. I might be pregnant at 7 months postpartum and I’m freaking out. My fiancé is also freaking out. Any advice?
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