Pregnant with no. 2 HELP very small age gap!!
I’ve just found out I’m 7 weeks pregnant. Our first is pretty much 10 months.
Half of me is so happy because I know our son would love a sibling. He loves other kids and is so interested when he’s around other little ones.
We definitely want to have more than one. I feel as though I’ve really found my feet being a mum, after a pretty rough time to begin with. I couldn’t imagine going back to my previous life, of course some elements I desperately miss but it’s only fleeting.
The other half of me is terrified! I’m so happy with our current situation and nervous change will affect everyone forever. We have such a cute bond with our son and I’m scared of that changing and not being able to turn back. I’m worried about how it will affect him developmentally as it’ll only be 16 months between them. And I know how important the bond is between a child and their parents before the age of 3.
It took us 3 years to fall pregnant with our first and of course it happens first time with our second!
Any advice positive and negative would be greatly appreciated. I’m open to it all! Good and bad 🤍
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My brother and I were 16 months apart and have been thick as thieves throughout our lives
I have a 17 month gap between my children and they are so close already. It’s the best thing ever. My eldest has been obsessed with him since he was born and it makes it all worth it. They have sat and played together for ages today at 23 and 6 months.
22 months between mine. Youngest is 7 months, like its hard, you're desperately trying to keep routine for your oldest but the youngest didnt get the memo. The worst thing is the guilt, even with people tell you you have nothing to feel guilty for, its overwhelming for the smallest of things. Then theres these moments, where your youngest laughs at your toddler, or your toddler get excited because your youngest is sitting, showing a book or toy to them and it kinda just seems worth it. Im still having to push through at 7 months, but I also know that giving my child a sibling is the best gift I could give for her future.
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Pregnant with no. 2 HELP very small age gap!!
I’ve just found out I’m 7 weeks pregnant. Our first is pretty much 10 months.
Half of me is so happy because I know our son would love a sibling. He loves other kids and is so interested when he’s around other little ones.
We definitely want to have more than one. I feel as though I’ve really found my feet being a mum, after a pretty rough time to begin with. I couldn’t imagine going back to my previous life, of course some elements I desperately miss but it’s only fleeting.
The other half of me is terrified! I’m so happy with our current situation and nervous change will affect everyone forever. We have such a cute bond with our son and I’m scared of that changing and not being able to turn back. I’m worried about how it will affect him developmentally as it’ll only be 16 months between them. And I know how important the bond is between a child and their parents before the age of 3.
It took us 3 years to fall pregnant with our first and of course it happens first time with our second!
Any advice positive and negative would be greatly appreciated. I’m open to it all! Good and bad 🤍
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