URGENT HELP⚠️

i’m on the verge of being on my own with my son from a situation i no longer wanna be in. i was looking to see if anyone knows of any kind programs for single moms with a child. (needing help with housing, working, ect) im in the ocala area looking to relocate in lakeland area, and in need of help within the next 2-3 1/2 weeks.

in our community

I think i know the answer im just not sure how to do it without causing a scene

So my daughter sees a speech therapist and she told me today about something that was said to one of the parents in the play group thats hosted by the therapy group. There was a little boy with cerebral palsy the very first day. The last 2 times I noticed he wasn't there. Well I found out that apparently someone told the mom the play group wasn't for special needs kids..... excuse the fuck out of me??? Wtf? Her speech therapist told me that it's not hard to accommodate for the little boy and that thats why he hasnt been there since. I am absolutely livid right now. I want to say something to the person hosting the play group but im afraid I might go off on her. So im thinking of having my husband say something. The last 2 play groups he could have easily participated in. My only issue is will me saying something possibly cause a problem for the mom? I asked my daughters speech therapist if it might be possible to give the mom my number that way we can get our kids together to play.

So the main question this pole is here for is... should i say something?

Another question but comment your answer please.. should I get the ada involved?

I know this seems stupid, I just dont want to cause any hardships for the mom.

Baby food @4 months old

my husband wants to start our 4 month old on baby food at 4 months. I said too early start at 6 months. But his mama said it’s fine at 4 months. I said no. Now he just giving it to him. What do yall think?

Tortilla pizza

This is only a portion of my daughter’s lunch from earlier. She was asking me for “pizza please” 😂😭 and I didn’t feel like making pizza dough or buying pizza, so I used a regular tortilla and some leftover pizza sauce I had from last week and made her a little tortilla pizza. Honestly, it worked out perfectly lol and she DEVOURED it so this was such a win

Anyone else's husband always look busy but doesn't seem to be actually helping?

Like I appreciate he may be doing jobs that are on his todo list in his mind, but nothing that is actually helpful in the moment. It seems like he can't prioritise.

For example we have a 5 month old baby and a 3 year old. Our 3 year old goes to nursery in the mornings. My husband is off work atm, I'm a SAHM, so we are both around.
This morning, I wake up at 6:30 with baby, take her downstairs so she doesn't wake everyone, feed her, change her, dress her. At around 7:00 I make my 3yos breakfast so it's ready for him when he comes downstairs. He wakes around 7:15 so I go get him and bring him down. My husband also comes downstairs at this point.

I help my son with his breakfast, baby is in her swing for now.

I make up my sons bag for nursery, fill his water bottle, I clean and put baby's bottles in the Steriliser, I dress 3yo, I take him upstairs to use the toilet, brush his teeth and wash his face, I style his hair.
I then come back downstairs and immediately smell that baby has pooped, so I say to my husband can you not smell that? He says no. I change babies nappy again.
I tell my son to go get his shoes on, I get the pram unfolded for baby. My husband finally appears to help 3yo with his shoes and jacket, puts his own shoes on and then just stands around. I put baby in her pram etc, we all get outside to leave just on time and then my husband is like oh I need to pee 🤦🏻‍♀️ What was he doing all morning? The recycling was sitting on the kitchen ledge, he didn't take that out. He didn't put the breakfast dishes in the dishwasher, I don't actually know what he was doing? Like he just sort of faffs?? Makes cereal for himself and looks at stuff and just sort of *exists*.
Yes I can ask him for help, and sometimes he will help more without asking, but it makes me so annoyed to have to ask in the first place. I'm already busy managing our morning so we aren't late, we both have the same responsibilities, we both know what needs done, idk why I need to be the family manager.

I’m at my wits end with my almost 5 year old ….

It’s getting harder and harder for me to take care of him. He didn’t receive ABA therapy because they make things hard for a parent . Waiting lists or not the insurance that they want. Anyways he’s starting to use my 2 year old as a punching bag when he doesn’t get what he wants. I used to take his tablet away as discipline but doesn’t look like it works or time outs. He pushed his brother 2 times today scratched my arms up pretty bad. I showed him what he did so he could understand that it was wrong instead he smiled at me and did it again. I put him in his room took the tablet from him he’s on timeout for 30 min. I’m sooo tired he did try to bite me but he couldn’t he also threw the tablets on the floor because he couldn’t use his which was his brothers new tablet and his dads. Things are cheap I’ve replaced many tablets now and one tv. He’s only going to get older and idk what to do anymore. I’m waiting on the school for a response on what program he’s going to be in and I’m just going to have to look on also behavior therapy.

Any tips for now ?

Graveyard?

Does anyone have a partner that works graveyard?
Do they still show up to help with the kid(s)? Like hangout with them. Help put them to bed. Helps brush teeth.

Or do they not because they’re tired and need to get ready for work?