3 year old waking up in the night

Hey mommas, looking for any tips. My 3 year old is sleep trained but for the last two weeks he's been waking up every night between 1-3am crying saying he wants to come sleep in our bed. We've let him in our bed a couple times but have kept the separation in general. I'm pregnant now so we really need him to want to stay in his room. We compromise with him at night to leave the door open for his room, but we don't want to keep doing this because we live in a single story and when the baby comes the noises will wake him up. Side note, he's still in his crib so he can't get far. Our ped said to transfer him to a bed, but now I fear he's gonna just walk to our room. He has light in his room, we've asked him if he's scared and what he wants but he says he wants to come sleep in momma and daddas room. Any suggestions are welcome. This pregnanct momma can't keep waking up every night because it's been increasingly harder to get back to sleep. Help please.

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