Hey mammas my baby is a week old but she is refusing to settle she wants to be picked up all the time she won't let me put her down at all. She was up all night and is fighting/refusing to nap. Any advice will be appreciated.
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This is totally normal baby behaviour Im afraid although it can come as a shock! We are carry mammals and baby is adjusting to the outside world, have a look at the fourth trimester. Contact naps, wearing baby in a wrap will be your best friend, and take shifts with your partner if you can. They tend to sleep better at night in a moses basket instead of a next to me as its more compact. You want them to feel secure so a rolled up towel squished up around their feet can help, as can putting a tshirt you have worn under their sheet. It gets better I promise
My baby has just turned three months and has started to get more aware of what around them, and sometimes when I take them out in the pram they are wide awake and looking around, I use the flat basket at the moment but I started on really quick trips that last no longer than 10 minutes use the cat seat so they can look around, well with the pram I got the seat section but as my baby can't sit up and can only hold their head a tiny bit during tummy time, what do I do?
Photo shows the pram I have.
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Is it a fluke I hope not! 😭🥴 My 6 week old is slowly getting better throughout the night and the 5am my partner did so had some beautiful sleep myself, crazy what a couple hours of sleep can do😍
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I literally don't know what to do. I want to stop co-sleeping but it is a nightmare. As soon as I place my baby in his bassinet he'll start screaming bloody murder, or roll onto him belly and wake himself up, or sleep 30 minutes then wake up. It's a battle every night and eventually I'm exhausted and give up. He wins and gets to sleep next to mommy. I don't know what to do. 😭 He sleeps perfectly fine on his own for naps, just not at bedtime. Any advice?

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Hey, I’m just wondering how long it was until people felt ready to have sex again after giving birth? Preferably would like to hear from people who gave birth vaginally and possibly people who tore as well. I feel like I’m ready but I’m scared it’ll hurt because of my scar… (in no way is my man pressuring me at all, this is all me😂)
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When did the regression hit you guys and any tips? We're 14 weeks and days naps LO is fighting sleep and taking ages to be put down then the nap isnt lasting very long and during the night LO is waking multiple times when usually id just dream feed them whenever boobs needed and they'd maybe have 1 wake before. Is this the regression starting? Any tips on getting through it?
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