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Has anyone actually made friends off this app I've had it for a little while snd haven't made any friends

in our community

Location…

Where’s everyone from? Let’s see if there’s anyone local to you to make some potential friends

I just need to know I’m not alone here. 😅😓

Does anyone else’s husband constantly ask for head but suddenly has every excuse in the world when it’s his turn to return the favor? 😂 Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love my husband, and we have an amazing time when the effort goes both ways…but lately, all I hear is, “I’m too sore.” Sir, please. 💀

At this point, I’m about to find myself a girlfriend and introduce her as my new best friend. 😅🤣💀

Thanks for listening to my little rant—please tell me I’m not the only one! 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

Working?

Hello mamas. I was just curious, how many of us are still working full time?

My Boss is the father…

I genuinely don’t even know how to summarize the last few months of my life without it sounding like the plot of a TV show, but I need somewhere anonymous to get it out.

I ended a relationship with someone I had been with for basically my entire adult life. We had over a decade of history together, and although there were very real reasons our relationship ended, you don’t just erase that kind of love and history overnight.

After the breakup, I started dating my boss. I fell hard and genuinely believed what was happening between us was real. Looking back now, I feel incredibly used. And then, in the middle of everything falling apart, I found out I was pregnant with his baby.

So not only was I suddenly dealing with an unexpected pregnancy and the realization that the relationship wasn’t what I thought it was, I also had to walk away from my favorite job. A job I genuinely loved. Staying there obviously wasn’t realistic anymore, so now I’m scrambling to find another job and get myself financially situated before I start showing enough that hiding the pregnancy during interviews isn’t really an option anymore.

And somehow, in the middle of all of this, my ex and I found our way back to each other.

Not because everything from our past magically disappeared. Not because either of us forgot why we broke up. But because underneath all of the hurt and everything that happened, we still loved each other.

Now comes the part that makes the whole situation even more complicated: I’m carrying another man’s child, and the person choosing to stand beside me through it is the man I originally left.

At first, he wanted us to just tell people the baby was his. I understand where that came from emotionally, but I wasn’t comfortable building our child’s life around a lie about something that important. We’ve had some incredibly difficult conversations about what all of this actually means, and despite how complicated and painful the situation is, he has told me that he wants to stay, raise this baby with me, and love him as his own.

I don’t know exactly what our family is going to look like yet. I don’t know what my work situation is going to look like. I don’t know how many more uncomfortable conversations or massive changes are waiting for me.

A few months ago, I thought I knew what my life looked like. Now I have a different relationship, no longer have the job I loved, I’m desperately trying to find another one, I’m pregnant, and the person preparing to raise this little boy with me isn’t his biological father.

It is messy. There are parts of it I wish had happened differently. There are things all of us could have done differently. But this baby didn’t create any of that mess, and he deserves to enter the world surrounded by people who choose him completely.

So right now, that’s what I’m trying to do. Figure out the practical stuff, make peace with the things I can’t undo, rebuild what is worth rebuilding, and somehow turn one of the craziest chapters of my life into the beginning of something good. ❤️

Just needed to vent 😮‍💨

Dinner 🍛

Mild Chicken korma and rice 🍚 with a side of grapes 🍇

Triangle group chat

Anyone near the angier/fuquay area that would like to be in a group chat? I’d love to have some friends nearby that would be down for grabbing coffee or just hanging out!
You can message me or comment your number and I can start the group! I think it’d be really fun for us to meet nearby moms :)