Over it!!!
I think I’m not meant or ready to be a wife. I’ve been together and living with my partner for 3 years and although we’re engaged now. I’m happier when he’s not here!!! I don’t like to have sex with him nor do i want to have conversations with him. There were things that happened between us that turned me off. We have a one year old together and I think I’m just not ready to start this new chapter!!
Anyone feeling or going through something similar?
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Definitely have and I still married my exhusband. I dont regret the time because he is one of the most important people in my life and we still talk today. I'm friendly with his gf now. I just wish I left earlier. I stayed because I guess it felt safe and I didn't wanna be alone. Dating these days seem hard but whatever you do, good luck.
Im not trying to be negative but please dont marry him if and when you feel like this. You feeling like this means he is not doing his part and effectively using you.
You feel better when hes not around because he is draining you. He is one less thing that leads to a hundred other things you have to take care of.
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I have a two year old girl who I look after practically solo I haven’t had a night off since she was born. I left my husband in December and moved back to my mom’s. At that time I felt like I had enough as he wasn’t supporting me with our girl and I was still pay half half towards everything. We agreed I stay with him at his mother’s house 4 nights and 3 at my family home. 9 months later I’m pregnant and I have felt so much anger and disconnection towards him. He said he wanted a second child to give our first a sibling and I agreed as he said if I wasn’t going to conceive naturally he would bank his sperm so I could have IVF I was against that why should I. (He was going to bank as he has a low sperm count and we struggled with our first). But now I have built up so much hate I’ve left yet again we are building our home to move in to but I’ve left because I just can’t handle that he does nothing now and he won’t with our second. My sister got involved and spoke with him basically saying it’s over you two can’t communicate effectively so I’m stepping in what are the finances as I have also given a lot of money towards our home and she said I won’t be going back 4 days a week he can do nursery collections and do dinner and get her ready for bed and I will collect after. No it all seems so real I’m thinking I do love him but I don’t love the way I’m treated. I’m afraid I’ve made a mistake and I’m afraid If I go back that will also be a mistake. And I know I’ve been really silly lending money and my name on nothing and getting pregnant I am aware of my stupidity. I just don’t know what to do now. I’m scared. He can do nursery collections dinner and everything now I said I’m done but he would when I was there it was all down to me. Sorry for the essay
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