Hi everyone, any tips on what to take for traveling with a baby for the first time on plane? Much appreciated š
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If you like to pack light (like meš„“) and depends on the length of flight but
Clothes that are easy to take on and off (ie zip up sleep suits.)
Finger foods if weaning
Disposable changing pads x2.
If not breastfeeding then Premixed feed to cover feeds on flight (+ powder incase of delays). X

Thank you so much! Iām assuming they allow premixed feed through customs? X

Clothes for you! In case baby spits up (or worse) clothes for them. Toys. Min enjoyed the suction cup toys.
I survived a 15 hour flight so you got this! Feed on the way up and down to help with the ears :)

I would also pack a baby carrier (they do allow you to take the pram to boarding) but in case youāre having to hold baby for a long time itās useful so your arms donāt get tired. You just have to take them out for takoff and landing
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