What do I do/get for my husband? It's our anniversary on Saturday, but we have 2 small children so won't be able to physically go out and do anything fun or have dinner just the 2 of us. (We may still go out as a family if the weather is nice!)
I wanted to get him something but he isn't really a gift person, he never or wants needs anything.
He's a foodie though so I might buy him his favourite cake. But that feels boring.. maybe its fine, I don't know
Does anyone have any ideas?
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I didn’t really do much for my husband for our 5th, I just had a custom painting done of one of our wedding photos.

We just celebrated 3 years and we have 2 under 2. We kept it pretty simple. I ordered Olive Garden online and he picked it up on the way home.

Find a special recipe to cook for dinner together if he's a foodie.

My husband would say the only cake he wants is the one I came with, cheesy but maybe take some sexy pictures for him and print them off *not at walmart or any public kiosk* to protect your privacy. And a love letter something personal.
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