Struggling with nighttime

My baby so far has been an angel at night, he only wakes up to eat and then goes right back to sleep. My mom tells me just close your eyes and sleep youll wake up if he cries or is hungry or whatever but I cant seem to sleep. Im constantly worried something is going to happen. I get up and stare at him in his bassinet after every little noise or sigh just to make sure he is ok. Im really hoping it gets easier cause the exhaustion is getting to me.

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Sleeping through the night

My 1 year old has never slept through the night once no matter what I do , has anyone got any advice for me on 20 yr old first time mum and struggling of a night time

Do you think grief makes the people around you uncomfortable?

I had a miscarriage in May and I asked my sister why she never checked up on me. Her answer was “ I already knew you were sad so I just felt weird asking because I already knew.” It bothered me so much because the grief was so intense for me, and I just HOPED to have someone ask me so I could feel less alone/vent. Her answer pissed me off so bad and made me feel so not important.

Rant

So I've followed the trial on Lindsay Clancy and now my algorithm is full of things on it. Since the mistrial I've seen so many creators posting complete lies about PPD and PPP. Not every mother who has/had it will annihilate Thier families or themselves. They are 2 VERY different things and seem to be being used interchangeably.
Mental health is a real issue and with all this misinformation and judgement surrounding it now it seems even less likely than before that people will try reach out for help. I can completely understand the desire to have her locked up and the key thrown away, but not guilty due to mental state isn't a new defence, in her state the prosecution has to prove she was criminally responsible. Also 11 people didn't think the prosecution proved that she was criminally culpable due to her mental health, that is the law. I am certain if ANY of her/the kids family thought the kids life were at risk they wouldn't have taken the risk so people blaming them is also just annoying me... Am I the only person with a nuanced view on this case!?

Nappy recommended

Hi guys! We was using the Aldi mamia nappies but my 1 month old boy keeps leaking through the back onto clothes, can anyone recommend a different brand?

Breastfeeding

Sorry mamas but breast feeding for a fact can result in saggy titties. I know some moms dont and just pump or express milk so their body keeps generating milk. My questions are if I don't breast feed at at will, will my breasts get too sore? Or should I keep breastfeeding? I know a woman who breasstfee for 4 years like wtf?! She was not getting no saggy sags.

Does your 3 year old ever make up lies?

My 3 year old will make up lies & I want to know if this is normal.
Say if we are in the room together for example
‘Me my parents and him’ he’ll say - my nan just kicked me - she absolutely didn’t! But I’m concerned if he told someone else they might believe him!!!