Scared to take a pregnancy test

Hey,
So I am almost a year into my TTC journey and my period is late. I want to take a test but I'm scared about seeing another negative test. My mental health has definitely been impacted by the TTC journey. Please can I have some encouragement/support. Should I take one or keep waiting - I'm about 3-4 days late.

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Hi lovely, I don't have any advice but just know you're not alone, you're strong and brave - no matter the result ❤️

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And since you are 3-4 days late, it might be worth a try. You're going to be okay ❤️

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Bless you. We are in the minority of people it seems who are actually too scared to take a test (as opposed to testing early). If you are 3-4 days late this sounds really encouraging so I would take one (it’s also better to do so in case you have a chemical - not saying that you will!) wishing you the best of luck!! 🤞🏽

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I would take a test just to get that peace of mind good luck darl xxx

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At this point I would test, but I'd also check my recent cycle and rule out if I ovulated late

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Hi ❤️ maybe trying thinking what would make you feel better. Would waiting cause you more anxiety or would taking a test help ease these worries no matter the outcome of the test. If it’s negative will it help to feel all the emotions linked to this now so you can then have a reset? If it’s positive then amazing news!

It is so so hard isn’t it but whatever you choose you’ve got this! Xx

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Hey,
So I am almost a year into my TTC journey and my period is late. I want to take a test but I'm scared about seeing another negative test. My mental health has definitely been impacted by the TTC journey. Please can I have some encouragement/support. Should I take one or keep waiting - I'm about 3-4 days late.

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