Please help me

Anyone wanna save me from my extremely bad tempered, rude speaking, eye rolling, attitude giving daughter? I'm ready to check myself into a lovely grippy sock vacation at this point she is driving me insane. I don't know where she got it in her to believe it is okay to act the way she does. She steals constantly and the meltdowns she has when she has to face consequences have actually had the cops called on us a few times. She's in therapy and she's on medication and I can't even seem to get a little bit of peace. Things get worse every day. No matter how much I try to talk to her and be calm and patient with her nothing clicks. Days get so bad that I question if I'm a good enough mom for her or she would be better off without me. I hate thinking that. But she even tried to run away after getting in trouble for stealing. I don't know what to do anymore.

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Does she have a dad father figure or I don’t know someone that she’s afraid of that could put some sense into her I think Counseling some kind of social work at school or counselor

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Hi there, if you need someone to talk to I am here and you can reach out to me. I have a daughter around the same age and who has experienced the same things, also as a foster child and things I have lived experience so I can absolutely relate and maybe even help. I also just got my dual degrees(bachelors) human development studies and psychology…

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