Night duties

Same situation I have always done nights, but mainly because he doesn’t hear our boy and mothers instinct kicks in before he has a chance lol. I see it as he is still working and has to have that routine to make money. Whereas I have a year off to spend with our boy so it’s okay. Don’t get me wrong if I need him in the night he does get up but very rarely x

We’re the same too. I’ve always done the night feeds, he rarely wakes up to her but also with his job I’d rather him sleep. Weekends, when LO wakes up he’s always got up with her and taken her down stairs for me to sleep. Now she’s sleeping through most night be both tend to get up at the same time

Same here. My husband wakes up at 3:30 am and hes back home at 4pm. And im on mat leave. I would never ask him to do the night feeding or changing. He's our main provider atm and he needs to be rested. I can always shut my eyes during the day. We also have a toddler and he goes to nursery. I do all the school runs as im home. Saturday and Sunday husband takes toddler downstairs and I can sleep until 8 am ish.

Monday to Friday I do it all as I appreciate my husband needs to be out of the house for work. Friday and Saturday nights he always has our little one (unless he's out / has been drinking then I'll have her) and I sleep in the spare room so I have a full night of uninterrupted sleep (we combi feed so in this time I may express if I become too leaky / will just wake up in a huge puddle lol and he will bottle feed our LO). I love my Saturday morning lie ins till midday lol.

I breaatfeed at night and partner works shifts so currently on afters so works 2pm-10pm. I will get LO to sleep for 8ish then when he gets home we'll have an hour together then I'll go to sleep in the spare room and he will take the first half of the night shift so I cam get some solid sleep, then when she wakes for her feed between 3 and 5 I feed and take over because at the moment that usually means us co-sleeping till the morning for my own sanity.

It obviously looks different on nights where he will take her when we wake up for a few hours before he goes to bed.

Not figured out the best way to work earlies yet as he already gets next to no sleep that week anyway with being up at 4am 😵‍💫

I breastfeed and baby wakes hourly or less atm so we average 8 wakes a night. I do them all 7 days a week and have a toddler. My partner takes baby from 6am so I can have an hour and a half or so solid sleep before he leaves for work. He’s very hands on in the evenings etc and he co-sleeps with our toddler so will deal with him if he wakes x