How are people relaxing
So I had a midwife appointment today and she told me off for slouching when I was waiting in the waiting room which I know doesn’t help with baby’s engagement however how else am I supposed to relax, sitting upwards forward and open isn’t comfortable all day and I keep finding myself going back to bed to lay down. I’m only 34 weeks and this is my third baby - my second didn’t even engage until birth! Any tips or advice to help babys engagement but also relax and be comfortable
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Lie on your left side with a cushion between your legs. Use a birthing ball etc. although as I write this I’m reclined on the sofa at 34 weeks as it’s the only way I feel comfortable 🥲😂
What? But they make us recline for scans and check-ups? 🤣 that midwife sounds a bit old school. I'm 36+6 and never been told off.
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How are people relaxing
So I had a midwife appointment today and she told me off for slouching when I was waiting in the waiting room which I know doesn’t help with baby’s engagement however how else am I supposed to relax, sitting upwards forward and open isn’t comfortable all day and I keep finding myself going back to bed to lay down. I’m only 34 weeks and this is my third baby - my second didn’t even engage until birth! Any tips or advice to help babys engagement but also relax and be comfortable
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