Sex postpartum

I’m only 2 weeks postpartum and all I want is my man! It’s actually awful having to wait so long! He doesn’t want to take any risks either even though the NHS advice these days is “whenever you feel ready” but he’s struggling to wait for 6 weeks too.
We’re gonna wait because it’s the safest thing to do but damn, it feels longer than the wait for the baby to be born 😩😂

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We didn’t wait 🤷🏽‍♀️

WAIT THERES a medical reason they say wait 6weeks. Worse case flick the bean or something but no actually sex until 6weeks.

It's really hard!!!! I was on pelvic rest for a few months too so I was really missing him. Even though my man knew I wanted to he wouldn't do it early! He learned there's a giant wound in your womb afterwards and wouldn't risk me getting an infection. So literally the day the 6wks is up we're back on the horse! Lol I actually conceived my 3rd baby the day the 6 wks was up! I know people who've done it early but I'm glad my man was more concerned about me than his own org@$m. Proceed with caution ;)

I get like this but definitely try to wait its not worth risk of infection.

Me and hubby really wanted sex but we waited for me to be 8 weeks and had no pain at all

Don't be too excited lol sex hurt so bad we put it off longer

You can physically feel fine, but you have absolutely no way of seeing that wound inside of you.

Please wait. I get it. I tried, and my husband looked at me like I had ten heads. Bet the day I got home from my post op apt, we went at it as soon as the baby was down for the night 😂😂

lol damn I didn’t want sex for the first 3 months Pp

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Posting as incognito as I don’t want to feel judged! I’ve tried getting hold of my health visitor but she never answers the phone.

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