Baby sleeping out
Me and my fiancée was talking about when the baby’s is here she will be staying over at his mums when she’s a few month old and I said absolutely not she won’t be sleeping anywhere till she’s atleast 1! He said that’s the most important thing to his mum is to have her grandchildren over night as babies. Which I get but to be anything below 1 is way to young to let them stay out over night , especially when there is no reason for her to.
I don’t think I’m being unreasonable as I have also said she wouldn’t be staying at my mums either , but he doesn’t agree.
What’s it everyone thoughts about this ?
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It's not unreasonable at all. It may be "important" to his mum but her opinion doesn't really matter here.
If one of you is uncomfortable with it, then it doesn't happen.
My son is almost 2 and has never stayed anywhere overnight without me. In fact in a couple of weeks we're going 200 miles away for a wedding (he's not invited) and my mum is coming with us to the air BnB so she can stay with him in the house while we go to the wedding, and then we come back to him overnight! I'm not comfortable with overnights anywhere yet.
Mine is 4 and hasn't stayed anywhere overnight and I dont think I will ever let her!
As this is my 2nd, I would say, .....never say never ! Don't make any confirmed decisions until you need too ❤️
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