My partner thinks Im upset over nothing?

Is he making sure that he feeds in order to not make a reflux worse? E.g. Pace feeding, feeding upright, ensuring that babies kept upright for at least 20 minutes after a feed, burping regularly through the feed etc etc?

My boy suffers from reflux and although I couldn’t get rid of it completely the days where I practised those feeding techniques were the days that he settled much easier, we are now trying omeprazole as he has flareups that are really bad xx

My husband doesnt really do any night shifts, he went back to work 2 days ago, but even before that he just wouldnt wake up for our daughter. Shes 4 weeks old now and unless I wake him and ask for help, I do it all on my own. We both sleep in the same room and go to bed at the same time. I also cant really nap in the day as she doesnt like her moses basket anymore and wants to be held. The worst night she didnt settle until 6:30am and I lasted until about 4:30am and then had to shake him awake because I was losing my mind. As you struggle from 2am do you have the option of going to bed earlier and almost treating it like you work nights? Your partner would have to have her longer by himself but if she sleeps during his time its easier anyway, like have an early dinner if possible and then try to wind down and even if you manage to get to bed for 7 atleast it gives you 7 hours.

My girl feeds at 12 (daddy does it), 3 and then 6 (both of which I do). This works for us. We do sleep in the same room. He works and is up at 6 when I get up with her. Personally, I think it’s so important for both parents to understand that work doesn’t trump being at home. You both have to be able to function, safely. Reflux sucks, I’m sorry you and baby are going through that!

Have you tried anything to settle the reflux? Or sleep routine? A swaddle sleeping bag? Mine has silent reflux and I'm about to try a different milk because she's been unsettled this week, my husband does our 5 and 3 year old wake ups they can wake from 4 or 5am and I do the nights with her and up at 6ish for him to go to work so I can do the school run, I know its super hard but remember it's a phase and it will pass and that your doing a good job! Is there a family member that could help out or a friend to sit with baby while you try a day nap?