How're we dealing with bump comments

I’m a FTM and 24+6 and I get the opposite “Are you sure you’re pregnant?” “There’s no bump there.” It’s really difficult but I try to laugh it off, always seems to be from people we don’t really know so can move on from it x

Personally, and I know easier to say but I just try and ignore comments like that as much as possible and just remind myself that baby is growing. I really don’t understand why people feel the need to say oh your bump looks big or small every pregnancy is different and women carry pregnancy is so many different ways. X

I understand this, I’m 22 weeks and when I told my dad and his partner at 13 weeks, his partner wouldn’t stop commenting on my belly “maybe the baby will come early”, “haven’t you told people at work yet surely they know by your stomach”. It made me a bit angry to be honest as I was struggling with my weight prior to becoming pregnant due to weight gain from medication.

Ive carried big with all my babies and these comments have always angered me so much. you’re not alone! I just try and remind myself I’m pregnant not fat 😂

I really dislike the bump comments too. I have body dysmorphia and the change in my body is something I'm mentally struggling with.
Its mainly my mother-in-law and I know it comes from a good place for her, and she's excited, but I feel its maybe something to keep to yourself. Or talk to your friends about it. One of my partners siblings tried to get me to show my bump on a video call, luckily my partner knows me well and declined. He even stood in front of the phone camera to keep me out of view which I appreciated.
I just feel like its a different experience for everyone and what one person thinks is a nice comment, really isn't for others.