Rant incoming

Sorry but I just need to get this off my chest and to see if anyone else feels the same.

I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant and apart from the booking midwife appointment and scan I’ve had no support from the NHS what so ever. I was referred to a service but haven’t heard a thing and now this morning I nearly passed out on the train. Tried to call midwife but I cannot find a number and when I did they said if your under 17 weeks then call your gp. I just feel totally alone in this and have no one to ask any of the important questions like is nearly passing out normal!?

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I had something really similar recently and it scared me too! Pregnancy causes a lot of changes to your circulation — your blood volume is increasing significantly to support you, baby and the placenta, while your blood vessels also relax and your blood pressure can run a bit lower, particularly in the first half of pregnancy. That can sometimes make you suddenly feel really lightheaded or like you might faint.
Definitely make sure you’re eating regularly and drinking plenty, especially if nausea has meant you haven’t been managing as much as usual. And listen to your body — if you start feeling woozy, sit or lie down somewhere safe and give yourself time to recover rather than trying to push through it. Rest when you need to as well ❤️
One isolated episode can happen in pregnancy, but if it keeps happening, you actually faint, or you’re worried about it, I’d speak to your midwife/GP/maternity team so they can check you over and make sure there isn’t another reason for it. xx

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You should have a 16 week midwife appointment coming up! But yeah generally everything is GP or A&E for immediate health concerns this early. Do you not have a helpful GP? Mine has written me 3 prescriptions so far for all my pain and suffering😆 with the fainting, you may have low iron. Or it may honestly just be normal. I’ve also had faint/dizziness recently, no low iron, just a normal pregnancy thing🙃 but can be triggered by dehydration

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I’m sorry you’ve been passed off. I had a problem last week and called the midwife triage number. They directed me to EPU, who then told me to call my gp so I understand the frustration at feeling like we’re ’in between’ care services. The gp was concerned by my symptoms so sent me up to the hospital.
The irony was that I ended up in hospital for tests and after being passed to different wards, I ended up back in the ward linked to EPU 🤦‍♀️ Such a faff!
Hopefully your gp is good with you too 😊

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I was sent to triage following my 38 week appointment to monitor slightly high fetal heart rate at 170. Heart rate stayed at a high base rate throughout and after the hour nothing had really changed however a doctor came to let me know that they could arrange a scan in the coming days and I could go home to which i told him I wasn’t 100% comfortable as the issue seemingly hadn’t changed and could they keep me on the monitor for a further hour. This resulted in them moving me to the antenatal ward and an overnight stay. After a couple of okay monitoring sessions the heart rate was again too high and I was told I needed to have a c section as baby would not manage well through a labour. Upon being moved down to labour ward they monitored me one more time and it had levelled out but said they were going to proceed with induction to which I asked if could I sleep on it and be monitored and have a scan first thing then decide as it all escalated very quickly.

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Rant incoming

Sorry but I just need to get this off my chest and to see if anyone else feels the same.

I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant and apart from the booking midwife appointment and scan I’ve had no support from the NHS what so ever. I was referred to a service but haven’t heard a thing and now this morning I nearly passed out on the train. Tried to call midwife but I cannot find a number and when I did they said if your under 17 weeks then call your gp. I just feel totally alone in this and have no one to ask any of the important questions like is nearly passing out normal!?

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