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Hi just thought i would say hi everyone. Hope your all well 😊 i hadt triplets 18/06/2025

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Cheating husband… 13 weeks postpartum

My husband and I, have been arguing a lot since the birth of our daughter. I had an emergency c-section, recovery has been tough as well as getting a handle on breastfeeding. Newborn trenches is really but a marriage has been harder…

During arguments he has asked me not to raise my voice (but I have PP rage and PPD/PPA). He has also said I’m not the women he married or he sometimes wishes he wasn’t married.

During our last argument, I threatened divorce. However since then, I had a dream he was cheating (we haven’t had sex in several months ie before baby arrived as I had pelvic girdle pain and he said it was fine and haven’t since).

He is working away and I decided to check his iPad and computer. I did message him, if I could use his iPad after I found the messages and he said yes, as he hadn’t used it in a while.

However, I have found messages from him to ‘call girls’ (is that what we call them?) while I was pregnant and during postpartum (a few before I was pregnant too). He has also met with them according to the messages (shared postcodes, confirmed arrival).

In addition, he has been speaking to his female friends about his high sex drive with one sharing her gym progress pictures and making jokes about not sharing pictures of her abs while he’s in ‘heat’. She recently got married and I think it’s inappropriate.

I even caught him today, as I could see the messages on his iPad and his location was off but conveniently back on as he was heading to his hotel.

I came from a broken home and didn’t want this for my baby. Plus he begged me to have a child promising to help.

He is a good husband and father (he does chores and helps with baby (maybe not 100% of the time but 60/70%) but I’ve felt unseen and lonely.

After finding these messages I have contacted a divorce lawyer but I want to make him pay. It’s his birthday this week, he owns the house (so I’ll have to leave and head to my mothers) but I want to tell him in front of his parents that I’m leaving him. Should I embarrass him in front of his family on his birthday?

I also want to invite the girl ‘friend’ over with her husband and embarrass her too for sending inappropriate messages to a married man.

Should I…?

PS: I’m terrified for my future. I didn’t want a child without having support from a husband and I don’t think I can do this alone. I’m drowning as it is but I do love my baby.

Do you feel a little offended if you text a friend especially a good friend and they take two or more days to respond to you, especially if it's something important to you?

I was talking about this with a friend because she says she doesn't think it's a big deal if someone if a friend doesn't respond to a question after a couple days like to me, it seems a little dissmisive, especially if it's important and I know people are busy and have things going on. But to me it can be annoying or frustrating at least to me.
If it's important I'm saying.

Looking for bestie

Hey y’all! This is meghan😊 I’m currently looking for some genuine friends that I can talk to about anything and everything—no judgment, just real friendship. ❤️

I currently live in Kentucky, but I’m definitely open to building friendships with people from all over the world! 🌎 Distance doesn’t bother me.

I’m a mom of seven—six of my babies are here with me, and one is my angel. ❤️ I’m also a BIG texter 😂, so if you’re looking for someone who actually enjoys talking and getting to know each other, just message me!

If you’re interested in becoming friends, send me a message. I’d love to get to know you! 💕

Alone!

We supposed to be in a relationship, however since being pregnant he just doesnt really care, mind you when I found out I was pregnant I was only 7 weeks i am now 19 weeks,he seemed happy and begged me to not terminate it ( I was not doing it regardless) he continues his life like nothing happens doesnt offer to help in any kind of way… we dont live together which i prefer it this way, however he doesnt care at all of how I am feeling or if I need anything ,mind you I am working more hours than a clock and he has not offered to even buy me a meal, if i dont text or call I dont know about him and when I stop doing it he accuses me of ignoring him like be for real 🤦🏽‍♀️so frustrating… i am really thinking into ending this relationship…
Any advice/thoughts?
I am going through my pregnancy alone

Friends

Looking for someone who actually likes to TALK and doesn’t disappear after a few messages 😂😭

There are so many people on here who will text you for a little bit and then just randomly ghost you… and honestly, it’s pretty annoying. 😂

I’m looking for genuine, consistent friendships where we can text about literally anything, send random thoughts, vent, laugh, and actually get to know each other! 🫶🏼💕

Who’s down? 👀

Lmk if u relate🥰🩷

Hi so I love my baby daddy and I am currently still in a relationship with him but he stays not having the right mentality, hes still active in the streets and he gets drunk on the daily he just leaves our daughter in her playpen when she’s crying as I’m trying to get chores done once he comes home and he won’t change her diaper and there are most days out of the week where he’ll stay for maybe 3 or 4 hours after work drinking and smoking with his co workers and like I don’t wanna complain because I’m a sahm and he deserves a break every once in a while but so do I and I never leave the house and I don’t even want to go back to work because I don’t wanna leave him alone with her because I feel like he’ll just be stuck in his phone a majority of the time and just keep trying to put her to sleep as if that’s the only solution to her crying I want to leave him if he won’t change and I’m sure I’ll have my stuff together by the time our lease ends in April 2027 money wise and everything and sometimes we have great days but it’s only the days he doesn’t drink but he doesn’t see it as a problem and tries to normalize it as much as he can. so fucking annoyed.