Have any of you felt happy and normal postpartum? Especially the second time around

Just wondering if it’s possible to not feel like yourself after having a baby. Like does it have to be weird everytime? Like you’re crawling back to feeling normalcy?

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I feel way better this time around but I had twins during the pandemic and they had a lot of issues from the start. I was so exhausted.

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I felt fantastic the second time but struggled the first. It made me go "wow this is what people mean" because I though somwthing was wrong with me

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My postpartum issues like ppa & ppr didn’t onset til 3 and 7 months pp respectively.

With my first the First 3 months postpartum were quite enjoyable tbh

Not a clue how this second time around will go

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