20 week scan

Instead of a private scan why don't you get the blood test instead? We got the one with alphabiolabs super simple do at home.

I had a private scan and I really thought it was a girl turns out...im having another little boy 😂. I can't lie i was a tad disappointed lol. Did you see the gender shot?

The blood tests are the most accurate thing you can do.
And can be done from a far earlier stage, so by 20 weeks you would get a definite answer.
I understand gender disappointment can be a thing, however it may be worth looking into things that can help you deal with processing that.