Best month to try and conceive?

We were thinking on trying for a baby soon but I don’t want to be sick over Christmas time?!🤣 when do you reckon is the best month to conceive. Mind you it might take a while as my boyfriend is 40 and a smoker??

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Either the very end of or the beginning of the year so you are half way through pregnancy in summer when it's hottest and then when baby comes it's cold and dark so you can basically hibernate plus have a tiny baby for Xmas.

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If he smokes it can reduce fertility. Tbh I have had babies in April, May and June. This year's one in June we had some very hot temperatures, so yes it was difficult, but I missed the worst of it in July-August. The bonus is all my children have birthdays in pretty good weather +so it also opens up more birthday party options in the future! 😁).

For our 3rd it took nearly a year to conceive, neither smokes but I drink. So personally I would start trying now, as you may not be ill - I was lucky in 2/3 of mine that I wasnt!
All the best! Xx

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August led to a May baby (positive pregnancy test September 9th). Being in the high desert it was anxiety inducing as we’re getting hot earlier and earlier and we had a small newborn we were struggling to keep cool. Baby was almost always naked beside a diaper.

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I live in northern Ireland so no matter what it’s mostly always cold. But I think I’d rather not have a newborn when my older daughter is off school. I have an older nearly 7 year old and I find summer hard enough when she’s off school. I think it be way easier when the older ones at school. Anybody else find this ?

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Honestly my second and now third were both conceived April & May 😅

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Best month to try and conceive?

We were thinking on trying for a baby soon but I don’t want to be sick over Christmas time?!🤣 when do you reckon is the best month to conceive. Mind you it might take a while as my boyfriend is 40 and a smoker??

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Hang in there 41 weeks club!!

Just sending all strength and patience to the mummas in the 41 week club! It's tough and the days are long, and the nights too! But oh so worth it!

After 2 boys I got my surprise Girl at 41+4 this morning. Sending you all the good vibes that you all meet your babies soon ❤️

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Sneak peek for baby number 2

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Sneak Peek?

Has anyone ever done the sneak peek test before and it was wrong? I just got my result today and it said boy, I’m only 9 weeks but did the early test, they say there always a chance of male dna contamination and I did mess up two steps but I made sure to sanitize everything , I just don’t know if I can trust it. I have my NIPT in a couple weeks where I’ll have verification but for now I’m wondering if this is a true boy result since I can’t be sure there wasn’t any male dna contamination.

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28 weeks pregnant, 36.5 bmi

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The mid wife hasn’t brought it up, hadn’t even told me the weight till I saw it in my medical notes..and now I’m spiraling. Definitely suffering through body dysmorphia and unsure what to do - my diet has been fairly healthy, and yes I can exercise more but I’ve been so tired..

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