What do I do ???
Ok I have to get this out and rant a little bit I never done something like this before but here goes..
After I gave birth to my first born there were no complications. Everything turned out just fine. I had a vaginal delivery..BUT the hospital workers still made me, my bf, and our baby boy (he’s 3 years old now) stay there for 5 days and we didn’t get any sleep the entire stay. We were also living in a hotel at the time and we didn’t have a car either. Once we finally came back to the hotel he found out that he got fired from his job and then everything went down hill from there (it’s way too personal to tell those details.)
Long story short..
I am 30 weeks pregnant and I’m due in December with our second baby boy. We can’t jeopardize his job again and I refuse to stay there more than 24 hours this time. I also don’t want to be there alone because they’re not going to allow our 3 year old to be there so this has been eating at me since it’s getting closer to that time and I’m not sure what to do ??
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I have seen suggestions to put it in the birth plan
Put it in the brith plan but if it jeopardizes you or your babies wellbeing I’d stay longer. If they fire your bf you can go after them for wrongful termination
If you’re adamant you want to leave and there have been no complications you can discharge yourself, no one can force you stay longer than you need to. Absolutely ridiculous - not sure what hospital this is but I’d definitely write it down something and make it loud and clear. I was home after a day and I had an emergency c section 🙈
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