I'm so tired of people asking when baby number two is coming or are you planning for baby number two, I just had my first people were already asking this less than 24 hours after giving birth to him, I don't want another kid to begin with! I was dead set on only having one kid and everyone's just like I will see about that, oh you can't be too sure, or just disregarding what I've said and how I feel! Including my husband he has made countless remarks on him wanting another kid and I thought I made it clear to him that I only want one kid and I thought he was on the same page as me but I assumed wrong and clearly we are not...
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Omg. Right?? It took my husband and I 20 months to conceive our first and people in my circle know that. It’s amazing how many people also add in, “are you nervous it’ll take as long as the first one did?” Like, how rude to get in my personal business?!
That so frustrating to have people asking you about baby number 2 and especially when you’re not even sure yet! Tell everyone that you’ll let them know if/when that day comes and to respect your time to enjoy baby number 1 for now!!

Unfortunately people gonna say whatever they want. As annoying as they may be just have to ignore their comments or come back with funny remarks. lol like “you grow it for me and I’ll take after you deal with the wear and tear of YOUR body” or “oh were you going to help provide for diaper and supply’s for me to have another baby??” After my first born 21 years ago I had always responded with “one and done!”
As far as your husband… did you two discuss your plans for children? Regardless he should respect your body and your decision. It’s a lot on us to have these babies mentally and physically- remind him of that!
Good luck because it is none stop. People will always have their comments and opinions, it’s funny really. Even complete strangers lol

Even 1 is a lot.. why people make babies?
Me and my partner have a beautiful 3 year old daughter but a few months ago decided we wanted another we were both so excited when we found out a couple of weeks ago we got pregnant, I’m about 6 weeks now and all I see on here or other social media for that matter is negative responses to having a second child (not saying people regretted it but that they wouldn’t want another like 1 is perfect) like it ruined the family dynamic or it’s so much harder you’ll have no time for yourselves or why would you want to start all over again when it’s so hard, so I guess I’m just asking all those mums out there who have got more than one if you could flood me with how amazing you’re little family is now you’ve got your squad 😂 I don’t know if it’s the hormones kicking in or the thought of giving birth again but I’m freaking out a little bit over here and would love some positivity to get me back on track for how excited I felt about adding another baby to our little family unit thank you ❤️
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Hi moms, how do you guys go to work or get anything done in the first trimester 😭 I feel like I’m just trying to survive each day with a long road ahead. I’m only 6 weeks with horrible fatigue, little to no appetite and morning sickness JUST started 😭
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38 weeks and still waiting for my planned C-section date. Anyone else in the same boat😳🌺

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I'm so tired of people asking when baby number two is coming or are you planning for baby number two, I just had my first people were already asking this less than 24 hours after giving birth to him, I don't want another kid to begin with! I was dead set on only having one kid and everyone's just like I will see about that, oh you can't be too sure, or just disregarding what I've said and how I feel! Including my husband he has made countless remarks on him wanting another kid and I thought I made it clear to him that I only want one kid and I thought he was on the same page as me but I assumed wrong and clearly we are not...
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Hey mamas!!
My baby boy just turned 7 months old today! I found out on the 11th (three days ago) that I am pregnant again. I went to the dr yesterday to get labs drawn and my hcg test confirmed it. They estimate me to be about 4 weeks, but are unsure right now since i did not have a period postpartum (exclusively breastfeeding).
I am pretty sure I have felt every emotion possible. Shocked, scared, stressed, excited, everything. The last couple days have been something.
I just turned 20 in September. I will have 2 babies before I even turn 21.
Does anyone have any words of wisdom, advice, or just any positive words for me😂
I am terrified to say the least, but also cannot wait for my beautiful boy to be the best big brother ever.
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Is this a dye stealer? Promised myself I’d stop testing once I’d had one. Anxiety levels are very high in these early weeks😵💫
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