Would you be offended?
So my MIL offered to pay for me to have the weight loss jab! Bear in mind I’m 5 weeks pp and I haven’t mentioned to her about even wanting to loose weight!
The conversation came up because she offered to pay for it for my partner and then she bought me into the conversation too! Like I was a size 8 before I had my two children and I’m now probably more of a 14 and I will loose weight when I’m ready but just in no rush but now I feel like maybe I should just start now! Like I must be massive! She also before hand said I looked like I had lost weight in my face🫠
Would anyone else be offended or am I just overthinking it?
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Id not be offended but she’s cheeky!
I’d be offended and that’s out of order! Your deffo not massive at a 14 and like you said your not in a rush so tele your time your only 5 weeks pp
No one should comment over someone else s body... And by offering this she clearly is. Out of places I would tell her off. My mom said that to my sister after she had her 2 kids and it was so inappropriate and unloving.
In my personal opinion. Not to offend anyone. If you feel insecure and dont like your body you will feel offended. If you accept it and understand extra kgs comes from ypur children, and you want to loose weight, you'd be happy that someone wants to make it easier for you. Thats how I see it. I know its an easy path. If mi mil would offer it id be more than happy. If my husband suggest it id be happy 🤷🏼♀️
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Would you be offended?
So my MIL offered to pay for me to have the weight loss jab! Bear in mind I’m 5 weeks pp and I haven’t mentioned to her about even wanting to loose weight!
The conversation came up because she offered to pay for it for my partner and then she bought me into the conversation too! Like I was a size 8 before I had my two children and I’m now probably more of a 14 and I will loose weight when I’m ready but just in no rush but now I feel like maybe I should just start now! Like I must be massive! She also before hand said I looked like I had lost weight in my face🫠
Would anyone else be offended or am I just overthinking it?
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