Having another baby

You’re underestimating how much of a gift having a younger sibling is 🫶🏼 It’s incredible seeing how much those little humans love each other

We felt that the timing was right, because things weren't completely insane as far as the things we can't control in our life, and it's been really good for our boys to have each other.

For our family, we felt a 3 year gap was ideal. That way they're close in age. As soon as we decided we would wait a year is when i fell pregnant (currently 27 wks). Our son is already obsessed with this little girl and ready to meet her. I feel like him being 3 now (just recently) hes able to understand most of what's going on and want to help more now. Shes not even here yet and hes already ready to give her toys/stuffies and play. Of course it'll be awhile yet until she can but his excitement definitely made this transition easier. The timing is never right for anything but if you have the will, theres always a way to make it work. May not go as planned but honestly, what does anymore.
I say if you want it badly, go for it. If you feel too stressed this year, wait 6m and ask yourselves again.

We waited until our son turned 3 & had baby 3m before he turned 4. We loveee the age gap!

I have zero jealousy fits, he wants to be involved and calls the baby his, and he's still young enough to when baby is one the can still play together. 🥰