Baby HATES getting changed

I'm tired of wrestling a baby crocodile!!! I actually dread the moments where I need to change his clothes or change his nappy because he scream cries and wrestles me off - to the point where I lose my cool and get super stressed. And he has an absolute meltdown when it comes to putting on clothes.
Ive tried giving him household items and toys, I've tried singing, I've tried playing games to make it fun..... What else is there to try??

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It’s really normal. My baby does it too. I just don’t get stressed because that doesn’t help. If you time it, you’ll see it doesn’t take that much time, and it’s not worth getting stressed about? I used to do that when my baby was difficult to put to down, but when I timed it, it put it into perspective that in 24 hours, it’s not that time consuming.

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I know it’s not recommend for kids lying down but with my eldest when she hit this phase I used to give her a snack to eat while doing nappy changes etc as it kept her distracted and probably will do the same when my 10m old starts being like that. If your LO has good eating skills might be worth a try but obviously it comes with risks x

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