Seriously hating my cat right now!

I think it’s pretty normal at her age! You basically have another kid who wants to play all the time. I’m a cat mom to an 8-year-old, and they do tend to calm down as they get older. I actually miss the energy she used to have when she was younger. She was pretty good at playing fetch!

Yes super normal and it will go away, she’s still in her kitten phase so she wants ur attention. I have two cats and a dog and I’m 2 weeks postpartum after a C-section and with a newborn. My dog and cats are super friendly and good with kids but whenever I’m with my daughter they get a bit jealous they bring their toys and keep jumping on me to play with them. I was super annoyed because my baby came a month early she’s super small, so my husband got them those puzzle toys. And he hides treats in them so whenever I’m pumping or feeding the baby he puts them out for them and they play. I try my best to remember they are also getting used to this new normal so it’s hard for them to go from having all the attention to sharing with a baby that needs constant attention. It will pass and it’s normal to feel like they are so annoying because they are at that moment, But they don’t know that.
You’re doing great!

Rage for pets is real. I hate my dog and cats since I had my first born. Got better when my first turned 2. Now it's my second baby and I'm much more relaxed

I felt so much rage for my bigger dog when I my first was born, I was so overstimulated with my son that I had no spare patience for my dog (or husband lol) but that feeling faded and the dogs got better at understanding the new dynamic. Your cat will learn to respect your boundaries eventually, but trust your gut and don’t feel bad about doing whats right for your growing family

Thank you all for the advice. I thought I was being a total monster and I feel so bad that I'm unable to give her the attention she needs right now. I will hold out and try some fetch games or puzzles, I do love our cat and don't want to give her away.