i’m not here for judgement please so if you’re going to be negative please do not comment…
i found out a few days ago that im pregnant at 4 months pp…. im really worried about 2 under 2, going from getting sleep to now potentially losing it again. i’m still not feeling like myself from my first pregnancy and now this. any positive or encouraging words will help.
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You will get a routine down. Don’t stress about it. I have three kids under 5 years old. I keep the baby in my room sleeping in a bassinet. I keep my door open so that I can hear my other kids and I keep a baby monitor next to my bed. I get one kid up at a time in the morning.

I know it’s hard not to stress about it but it happened, you’re in this situation there is no point in being stressed and worrying… you’ll be happy in the end with your 2 babies and you’ll figure it out. A lot of people have children so quick after and they’re happy because at the end of the day your baby is the only thing that matters. You’ll get into a routine and the way you adapted to 1, you’ll adapt to 2 ❤️ if I didn’t have an emergency c section I’d get pregnant so close on purpose after not being able to conceive for 6 years, so maybe see it as a blessing ❤️

It’s honestly not that bad if you love being a mom ofc it has its ups and downs especially with sleep but it’s amazing especially when you start seeing them play together and then you buy matching outfits and shoes it’s SO cute. Look into ABA parenting and not permissive parenting to learn how to cope with things.! My lo just turned 1 and I’m due in Jan so it’s scary honestly but I have a 3 year old so I know how the transition from 1-2 was.

I had 3 under 3 girl. It wasn’t the best decision on my part but I got it down. It’s just a learning curve for everyone involved. You got this mama!

Your babies will grow up so close and happy together knowing how loved they are! Congratulations. Even though it will be hard you'll do great. A sibling is the greatest gift and you'll be tired but so happy 💕

I ended up having 4 under 2. Singleton, twins, then another singleton. The bond that they have is amazing to see. They’ve never known life without each other. The ideal age gap and family size is different for everyone but in my opinion it’s just more love to go around all around. Plus I wanted to get all my baby years out of the way around the same time instead of having to start over again years from now

I had 3 under 3 at one point youve got this
Had my first visit to triage yesterday as my baby hadn’t moved as much or as strongly for 24hrs. As I’m 23 weeks all they could do was check her heart rate and as it was fine I was out in under 5mins. I’ve still not felt any of the bigger movements I have been normally and usually I felt baby early mornings and evenings with the odd wriggle through the day. I have an anterior placenta positioned more to my left so I tend to only feel baby on my right, it could be she is on my left side. I became ill in my first pregnancy (also anterior placenta) with pre eclampsia and one of the reasons for his delivery at 32 weeks was discovering the placenta was no longer working as it should, and in the days before this his moments had slowed down. So I can’t help but feel anxious especially as I’m now a high risk pregnancy. I don’t know what to do as there isn’t anymore triage will do until I’m further along so it’s not worth calling them again but I don’t see my midwife for a couple of weeks
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i’m not here for judgement please so if you’re going to be negative please do not comment…
i found out a few days ago that im pregnant at 4 months pp…. im really worried about 2 under 2, going from getting sleep to now potentially losing it again. i’m still not feeling like myself from my first pregnancy and now this. any positive or encouraging words will help.
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The lab received my blood sample for the nipt gender test on Friday, since than I have checked the portal at least like once every hour, im excited to find out babys gender, like either gender im happy with but I'm just so impatient and wanna know, I heard earliest can be like 5 days but its usually 7 to 10 days, I cant seem to distract myself at all and just keep checking and seeing it say "processing" which makes me a little sad cause I know its not gonna be this soon but I still was hopeful id see it. I had a dream I opened it and it was there, the second I woke up I checked the portal 🤦♀️ nothing yet of course lol.
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Is anybody else really struggling with the physical and mental challenges of pregnancy? I really want to just have my baby and be done with it. I’ll start the induction process at 37 weeks but I’m so fed up of it all. Felt like this since 24 weeks and not really sure what to do anymore 😔

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I'm 39 and 1 day. So far I have not had hardly any symptoms. Baby is tooo comfortable in there. Yesterday however I can feel him sitting right on my bladder, hes soooo low that its hard to even move now. Has this been a sign that you'll go into labor within next couple days? Or just another symptom that could last a week or two? I hoping the he'll decide to come now that Halloween is over. 🤞🏻

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Due 10th may
Do we think boy or girl ??🩷🩵
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