1st Birthday Party, but with more adults than kids

We're thinking we want to invite Aunties/Uncles, Grandparents, friends etc to celebrate, but with it being January there would be nowhere near enough space in our house to host. We also don't just want to have an adult party in a pub, or a kids party with more adults than children in a soft play, so we're finding it really tricky to figure out how to have a children's party with some entertainment, but also cater for a lot of adults mingling. Does anyone have any ideas?

We're in the South West London area if anyone has a specific venue to mention.

in our community

bonfire night?

hi everyone, I really want to take my 2 year old to the fireworks this weekend however we will have a nearly 2 week old baby and don’t know if this would be too little. Obviously we will have some ear defenders and he will probably sleep through, i just don’t want my 2 year old to miss out🥹🥹

8 week scan

Had my 8 week scan today, we saw a strong heartbeat 🥹 after 4 miscarriage’s I was so anxious going in. Hoping this will ease my anxiety until my 12 week scan 🤞🏻

Midwife bump percentiles

Hey girls! I’m 34w4d today, had midwife, everything sounding good. But when she was feeling the bump and measuring it, she said I’d need to have a scan tomorrow as I’ve gone from 52nd to 98th percentile in two weeks😬 she could feel baby really low down in my pelvis and told me she thinks she might come early. I’m a little stressed as I know if she’s out before 37 weeks there could be problems and all sorts. Just wondering if anybody else has had this or anything similar? I’ll attach a photo of the bump to show how big it is😁!

Growth scan referral at 28 weeks

I left my 28 week midwife appointment today feeling really down and alone. I’ve been referred for a growth scan as the bump/fundal measurement is below the 5th centile. The midwife said the measurement usually isn’t accurate and the scan should be reassuring, but it will be almost a week before I have it and I’m left wondering if there is something wrong and I’ve been told to look out for various symptoms (preeclampsia etc) in the meantime. I’ve asked to bring my perinatal mental health appt forward (I had PPD after a preterm birth with my first) as my mood has been really down recently and just left feeling really unsupported. I was told to go to A&E if I have suicidal thoughts in the meantime and that was that. Just looking for some reassurance and support really as I feel really lost and sad - has anyone else been referred for a growth scan and it’s been fine?

Measuring small

Im 32wks and 3 today and my baby is measuring about 4lb 5oz. They said she is a bit on the small and I have an appointment to see an obstetrician on Wednesday. Should I be worried or are they being cautious? Xx

Normal or not

Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice and to hear from other parents who may have experienced something similar.

My baby boy is 5 weeks old and I’ve noticed that he sometimes has jittery movements, where his whole body seems to jerk a few times. It doesn’t happen at any particular time or follow a specific pattern.

He also cries, strains and turns red in the face before having a bowel movement.

Has anyone else experienced this with their newborn? Is this kind of jitteriness normal at this age, or is it something I should be concerned about?

I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences. Thank you! ❤️