How dark is your room with a newborn? I heard that pitch black is best and when they wake up to feed/change to use a red light. But are you guys comfortable with the room being so dark you can’t see the baby??
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FTM with a 17 day old so we’re still figuring out what works for us - but we have a travel white noise machine that has a dim light (was just from Amazon) which we keep on in the night and gives us enough light to see the baby. I also put the Owlet camera up over the next to me crib so I can see her in the dark (if she sleeps in it that is 😂) - originally it was only for when she goes in her own room, but I found it really comforting to use and see what’s going on!

I couldn’t sleep if it was too dark so we just have the room as normal and a red light for when changing and feeding wich works great and allows all of us to go back to sleep quickly. We try not to make a too big of a fuss about sleeping arrangements as we want to have a sleep anywhere baby/toddler.
She is three weeks old now and wakes every 2-3hours and feeding, changing, back to sleep takes usually around 30-60 minutes

My general rule with my first baby was not to introduce anything I didn't want to continue forever. So we never did pitch black room, because I didn't want to have to rely on that in future. Worked really well because we didn't have to worry in the summer when his room was lighter in the evenings.
Dark and quiet is fine, and then light and loud in the day

We have the red light on low all the time, so we can still see!
I actually found it much easier to go into the nursery to feed and change, as i could barley see with just the red light and pee was everywhere🤣 in the nursery i use a dim orange lamp to see

Completely dark room and I have a little light chicken (bought in Amazon) that I push in my bed for any needs I have during the night... Best buying ever

They say pitch plack but I find it hard to see what I'm doing with changing and feeding her though is the only thing despite having the red light on the thermometer
My daughter is 7 months and he started to wake up every 2-3 hours again. Sometimes I can rock her back to sleep other times feeding seems to work the best. She sleeps in our room in a pack and play and she will sit up and cry so I know she’s not trying to self soothe. What worked best for you and your littles?
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I had my baby through assisted delivery they used forceps to take her out but since day one I’ve observed some white discharge on the corners of her eyes ,I thought it was the normal thing but now that she’s almost turning 3 months old she’s still having the same thing,anyone know else experiencing the same with their forceps baby please or should I ring my GP to let them know
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My girl is 8 weeks just wanting to know what time people are roughly doing last nap then bedtime. Also do you dream feed

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Hi all I know the Bhs guidelines say keep baby in same room as you for first 6 months. My baby is 5 months old but she's a really bad napper in the day so I hardly get any chores done I was wondering if it would be safe once u put her to bed to set the camera on her to go downstairs for an hour or two to do chores. Everything I read online says no because of Sid's and I do have anxiety over Sid's. I would still be staying in the same room as her overnight. I want to hear everyone's opinions and what they have done. Thankyou x
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Little boy is nearly 6 weeks when do you start doing timed naps currently he just sleeps when ever where ever but I’m think soon I will have to start put him down for naps, and would like to introduce his cot eventually so he’s used to it when he starts sleeping there once he’s out from the next to me
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Has anyone got any tips or advice for stopping breastfeeding that actually work? Everyone I seem to ask doesn’t seem to give useful advice or helplines don’t reply as soon as I say she’s 13 months.
We have managed to drop some feeds but not able to drop more.
My little one is 13 months old, I’m so ready to stop but it’s her only comfort. She has no comforter as never took to one.
At home she won’t sleep without it unless she’s in a car/pram. She goes to nursery and with other family members in the day time and sleeps no problem for them.
Health Visitor advised someone else doing her bedtime routine, but she won’t settle for anyone else if she knows I’m home, she gets herself so worked up and stressed out.
I’ve tried going cold turkey but I end up giving into her as I hate seeing her so distressed.
I’ve tried distractions, snacks, water playing with toys but only works sometimes for a short period of time.
She won’t drink cows milk either.
I’ve tried plasters but she peels them off.
I don’t like the thought of putting anything “bad” on my nipples.
Any other tips that worked for you?

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