Advice for stopping breast feeding

Has anyone got any tips or advice for stopping breastfeeding that actually work? Everyone I seem to ask doesn’t seem to give useful advice or helplines don’t reply as soon as I say she’s 13 months.

We have managed to drop some feeds but not able to drop more.

My little one is 13 months old, I’m so ready to stop but it’s her only comfort. She has no comforter as never took to one.

At home she won’t sleep without it unless she’s in a car/pram. She goes to nursery and with other family members in the day time and sleeps no problem for them.

Health Visitor advised someone else doing her bedtime routine, but she won’t settle for anyone else if she knows I’m home, she gets herself so worked up and stressed out.

I’ve tried going cold turkey but I end up giving into her as I hate seeing her so distressed.

I’ve tried distractions, snacks, water playing with toys but only works sometimes for a short period of time.

She won’t drink cows milk either.

I’ve tried plasters but she peels them off.

I don’t like the thought of putting anything “bad” on my nipples.

Any other tips that worked for you?

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