Baby is due between Christmas and new year. I’m due to have a c-section at 39 weeks (the week of Christmas).
I’m feeling a little guilty that my baby is always going to have an extremely close to Christmas birthday and also wondering what I’m actually going to be able to do for Christmas this year. We were hoping to visit family, but they are 1.5 hours away, and I just don’t know if that will be too much for us. Has anyone got any similar feelings or experiences to this
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Hiya i am due christmas but have a c section booked for the 21st. We are just planning on playing it ear about having guest but not travelling anywhere ourselves.

I’m due on the 27th and we feel the exact same but we are doing a mini Christmas at home with stuff from M&S so there is no mega cooking. We normally travel to see family but for us it isn’t worth the stress!!

I'm also having a planned c-section when I'm 39 weeks which falls on Christmas Eve but I'm hoping it will be before then. I also have a 2.5 year old who is obsessed with Christmas this year.
Feeling guilty is normal, I feel the same, but as long as you celebrate their birthday separately I think it will be fine.
I'm 100% not cooking Christmas dinner! My plan is to have a pre Christmas dinner with my family a couple of weeks before my c-section. I'm going to stock up the freezer with picky bits for my husband to cook on Christmas day and then probably do some takeaways.
My advice would be the same advice that I've given myself. Take each day as it comes, go easy on yourself and Christmas with or without family and a full Christmas dinner will still be magical since you'll have a little baby in the family ❤️

I’m due Christmas Eve and we will not be travelling anywhere but have said once home I will let people know and they can arrange a visit

I’m due the 27th and think we will do a Christmas lasagna or something similar to pull out and bake. I’m expecting this one to come a few days early as my other two have, so want no stress cooking with a brand new baby! My parents will come over - more to help keep Christmas spirits high for my 2 and 5 yr old than to be entertained. I’m feeling more guilty about the Christmas I’m giving my other two…haven’t really thought about what a Christmas bday will be like for this one yet!!!

Our children will both be either side of Christmas so I’m planning to host a joint “half birthday” in the summer months to have another not close to Christmas celebration

Remember, it’s recommended newborns need to get out and stretch every 30 mins travelling in a car seat so 1.5 hours turns into 2.5 very quickly!

I’m due 28th with a planned c section booked in for 24th. I felt the same at first, but accepted it’s going to be extra special and will do Christmas before with the kids in the family but they’ll come to me. I won’t stress about visits after have set boundaries will take each day as it comes 😁

Hi, i'm due 23rd and also live a distance away, 6 hours from both our families. We have a few immediate family members coming to us for the holidays/birth, but we have absolutely no intention of travelling to them for atleast 6 weeks. We've pre prepped as many meals as we can in the freezer and plan to pre prep most of christmas dinner to make the holidays a bit easier, part of me wants to forget christmas this year entirely and part of me wants to bring baby home to a full magical christmas winderland 😂. I totally understand what you mean about Christmas/birthday though, i'm hoping I go a bit early or late, but at the same time, what a beautiful little christmas gift for us mummas 🥰. I have a friend who's son is a christmas baby, they have a half birthday in summer for him, another friend i grew up with celebrates hers on boxing day and it just is what it is, she's just used to it. I'm sure we'll all figure out what works best 🥰 xx
Hey mamas,
The top layer fell off last night and my midwife also said any loose ends I can cut off. I just now saw the spottings in certain areas. Should I be worried?

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Has anyone else experienced pain in this area when sitting and laying on your side.
Feels like a sharp stabbing / pulling and gets worse the longer you’re in that position.
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Hi everyone. I’m a first time mama expecting my rainbow baby girl on Christmas Day. I’m currently 33.5 weeks.
The last four or five days I’ve found my tummy feels really uncomfortable and not like it did previously. It feels like baby is pushing or leaning back against the front of my tummy all of the time, so one side feels really full and distended. She’s kicking and moving fine, but I don’t know whether this is just a result of her getting bigger and so feels new, or something else?

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Hi everyone,
I’m hoping to hear from anyone who’s experienced something similar because it’s really frightened me.
I’m currently 23 weeks pregnant and was admitted to hospital after having some fresh red bleeding. It wasn’t a huge amount, but it was definitely more than just a tiny spot. I had all the checks done, stayed in hospital for 24 hours, and thankfully everything with baby was reassuring, so I was discharged.
Since coming home, I’ve had a little more bleeding (just small amounts), which has made me really anxious. The doctors couldn’t tell me exactly what caused it, and all they could say was that sometimes they never find a definite reason.
Has anyone else had unexplained bleeding this late in pregnancy and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy? Did the bleeding eventually stop, or did it come and go? I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences because I’m feeling so worried at the moment. ❤️

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Estimated fetal weight puts baby at 86 percentile
But stomach is 97% and so is femur (thigh bone) at 97%
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