Baby hates the car seat

My 8 week old cries for every car journey. Last week we went away on a 3 hour journey and thought we had turned a corner because she fell asleep calmly and we managed the journey with only two stops. On the way back was a different story, we had to stop 3 times in the first half hour and she cried solidly for the final 40 minutes because there wasn’t a services we could stop at. Since then she has cried for every car journey, almost the entire journey. It’s stressful when I can’t pick her up or physically comfort her and it’s putting me off going anywhere in the car. Anyone had this and found a solution?

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Mine cries just at the start sometimes, I sit next to him and give him a dummy then he falls asleep until we stop. I’m dreading driving by myself though because I won’t be able to do anything.

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My first son did this and it was so hard! The happy song by Imogen heap helped a little but other than that it was just time for us - I hope she stops soon! My friends little girl went to see a baby chiropractor and that helped her a lot x

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If anyone has any tip I would be grateful, he screams the whole time and I am the only driver so I cane sit with him and it makes driving so stressful

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I did a 2 hours drive yesterday with my 6 week old. I put a YouTube video of white noise through the speakers then turned it up and down quickly. It worked for the last 30 minutes of the drive

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We’re in a similar position. She screams as if she’s in pain! Even just going round the corner for nursery drop off. I don’t remember our first being like this at all. I don’t know what to do to help

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Mine is the exact same! She’s 9 weeks old and can’t stand going anywhere in the car whether it’s an hour or 2 minutes! Have tried white noise & a dummy and neither seem to soothe her - she instantly stops crying when she’s lifted out! Hoping it’s just a phase as not sure what else we can do!

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We had this from 6 weeks until about 8 weeks when she decided she doesn’t mind it again, only things we changed are reclining the seat slightly, putting a mirror directly infront of her and playing white noise (we play white noise at all nap/sleep times) and also started putting her in the car seat when it’s already in the car, rather than in the house and then carrying it to the car. That way we are quicker to start moving (she doesn’t like the car stationary!) She’s 9.5 weeks now and we’ve had the odd cry but nothing like the screaming/crying we were having a couple of weeks ago. It is so horrible when you can’t soothe them!

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What kind of car seat do you have?

Both of mine hated the infant carrier and screamed the whole time. When I moved then up into the next stage car seat and they were more upright this resolved for us.

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Baby hates the car seat

My 8 week old cries for every car journey. Last week we went away on a 3 hour journey and thought we had turned a corner because she fell asleep calmly and we managed the journey with only two stops. On the way back was a different story, we had to stop 3 times in the first half hour and she cried solidly for the final 40 minutes because there wasn’t a services we could stop at. Since then she has cried for every car journey, almost the entire journey. It’s stressful when I can’t pick her up or physically comfort her and it’s putting me off going anywhere in the car. Anyone had this and found a solution?

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Tantrums already

I don’t know about other babies but feel like mine has mini tantrums of throwing their body back or giving them something and then they’ll throw it. I thought all this was to begin at ‘terrible twos/three’s’. Even when I say ‘no’ to doing something they just continue and ignore me.

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3. How long between each nap? (Wake windows)

4. How many hours before bed? (Last wake window specifically)

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