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I found out I’m pregnant about a week ago, after debating back and forth I’ve decided to keep my baby despite being single and being unemployed at the moment... I haven’t told anyone but my bestfriend who’s currently in the Air Force. I’m in the process of signing up for the Navy but probably won’t leave until after my baby is born... This is very unorganized and messy but I have nothing but faith that God will provide me with the opportunities that I need to succeed! Though I’m not in contact with my father by choice, I’m thinking of reconciling our relationship for family support; and I have no idea how my mother will feel about this. I’m sure she’ll be very disappointed and try to talk me out of it, but I’m 22 years old and feel that I need to take responsibility for my reckless behaviors, I can’t bring myself to go through with an abortion again; I had one last year after my birth control failed me, but this time it was my fault. I’m diving in the deep end it feels... but I would appreciate anyone who shares wise and kind words with me at this time! Women are so strong and resilient 😍 I believe this chapter in my life will make me even better of a person.

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Yes mama ! You are already acting like a MOM . Put your baby before you put yourself . You don’t want to be with your child’s father or vis versa so be it . Things happen unexpectedly in life . As you said god has a plan for you and will never fail you . Be happy , creating a baby is a beautiful moment in life

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You can do it Mama! The military is a great choice! You sound like you have a plan and the right attitude! Keep us updated on how you’re doing!

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ThAts awesome you are keeping the baby! Please don’t stress because that will actually harm the baby inside you!!! Just take it day by day :) your little miracle will change your life for the best

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Best thing ever, you got this mummy xx

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As much as I love your spirit of wanting to serve your country, unfortunately as a single parent you can’t enlist into any branch of the military. Even if you were to give up legal custody, if you attempt to regain custody after the fact, you will probably be discharged from whatever branch you are in. I’m sorry.

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I got pregnant at 22, it saved my life. I was on the wrong path, not in school, barely had money. Once my daughter arrived, you wouldn’t be able to recognize the old me.

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I’m 23 years old and just had my first baby if you need anyone to talk to feel free to message me

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You can definitely do it just FYI if you enlist in the navy you will have to be either married or give up rights to be active duty or be a reserve you also have to wait until your baby is 6 months

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Please, please, please don't rob yourself of the Greatest gift God could ever give to a woman. Please. No one ever really explains how good it feels to be a mother, and the love for your baby is like no other. I NEVER felt ready. I had my baby 8 months ago.I feel like he's the best thing that ever happened to me. Your baby will bring so much joy to your life.Your maternal instincts will kick in immediately. Caring and protecting your baby will be so much fulfillment to you.God will NEVER leave or forsake you.He loves you and your unborn baby. You are already a mother. Protect your angel. If you want to talk privately. I'm here for you no matter what. Men may come and go.Don't let that stop you. Gather around family and friends. Yes, your dad and mom will get on board! Stay strong.Accept your blessings ❤Much love and respect to you.

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You're smart, beautiful, kind, and loving. Do what is best for you. You want to reconcile with your father do so no matter how your mom feels about it and who said she has to know what your doing. You will be alright, keep the faith and know God is with you every step of the way. Xoxo

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You got this 👏🏼

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hey mama, it’s gonna be hard to leave your little for bootcamp but the military is so stable. I got pregnant while I was in the Army and my husband is Navy. I think you’ll kill it, just let your little one be a motivator to push through the initial training and schooling 🤍

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Awesome congratulations I just found out I’m pregnant again just had my baby girl 5months ago

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I’m soo soo happy for you!!! Message me if you ever need to talk!!!

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Im so glad and proud you decided to keep the baby because it’s such a blessing to be honest! When that baby arrives you will forget all the negativity and be obsessed with your little one! The bond is so strong that nothing in this world can beat it! It will be hard at times but it will only make you stronger in the end and there will be so much more support financially, emotionally and physically than you think!! You got this. Don’t lose faith my love ❤️🙏🏼

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Wow congratulations beautiful! I wish I saw this post sooner. I am so proud of you, and wish you a happy and safe pregnancy ❤❤❤

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I'm in the same boat love. And by god he already knew what he had in store. He gave us single moms the power to over come it all.

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