Partner Trying to Control EVERYTHING!
Okay! I’m almost ready to give birth and my partner and I have decided a long time ago about who will name our daughter. Initially, we both were suppose to decide on a first name together—which didn’t happen. I was the one who picked her first name; I gave him 4-5 months at least 🤦🏾♀️. Anyways, he agreed to the name I picked and I told him to pick the middle name; I think its only fair. He choose the middle name, but now he wants to switch her middle name with her first name! This is all because the middle name of my baby girl is a combination of both of our mothers name—which is sweet but NO! I feel like I’m being pushed to the side with decisions on my own child—first child at that. Any advice on how to be more stern and grounded ladies?
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Hmm this is a difficult one cause I do understand that sometimes it’s as important for the both of us to pick a name😣
I always thought I’d be more lenient if we had a boy and let him have more of a say and if it was a girl then I would have more say in it? But we ended up having a boy and I love Zion and thankfully he liked it too so I got to have my way 😅
I think you guys should give it a few days not talking about it lol then come back and calmly talk about why it’s important for both and come to a decision together before someone ends up resenting the other.
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