Sex drive

Anybodies sex drive decreased since early pregnancy ??? I use to wanna have sex everynight, now I don’t even wanna think about it and I’m no longer “ready😉😉” for it now. Takes awhile to get me ready I’m just not interested 😕

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I’m the same, sex drive is gone😂 since mines gone my boyfriends has to thankfully haha x

OMG yesssss terribly. And it’s not like I didn’t think about it constantly my body just did not wanna act right. After baby I’ve seen a slight increase in my drive but nothing how it used to be my doc said it was common and I just have to be patient . My husband was not to happy about that one😂😂😂

Same here unfortunately. Think alot of it has to do with how big and awkward I feel but also feeling like we are not alone! Haha!

Same my sex drive is gone. But I’m a single women so I guess the pro to that is no one is here to make me feel bad about not being in the mood LOL 😆

Me! We used to have sex multiple times a day, and now I’m like nope. Not happening. My husband HATES it. We have had sex but it is very uncomfortable for me, no enjoyment, and I end up sick and hurting so bad afterwards.
Now I don’t want to due to it caused me to go into labor last time and the midwife told me no more “pitty fucks”. My husband was very bummed and shocked when they said that. She said they don’t beat around the bush in triage 🤣🤣🤣

My sex drive was gone from the time I found out (about 4/5 weeks) until about 18 weeks. I’m 21 weeks now and I’m horny nonstop.... just hang in there. I’m sure it will return. 😊

Mine too - and my partners has increased 😫🤣 every few days or at least weekly before getting pregnant. I’m now 8 weeks and he’s at me every day - I just have no interest at all!

Yes first trimester very rarely, but the further along I get I get more of a sex drive. Lol I've been told its a good thing towards the end of pregnancy cuz it opens you up, but idk about it. I'd ask the doctor to be sure. It happens, but I think it'll come back to you when you're ready.

Thank you mamas, I was worried it would be like this for the rest of my pregnancy. Hopefully it returns soon lol

I’m 24 weeks and thought the sex drive would of come back by now from what I’ve been hearing, but I couldn’t think of anything worse 😅

I totally agree with all of you, my sex drive is not all there neither & im 24 weeks. My bf wants it almost everyday but its like i have to be put in the mood in order to have sex period now. But i used to want it all the time before being pregnant then sometimes i think im gonna have pains after having sex. It's pretty weird

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