Hey mums, I need some advice. My 20 month old refuses to nap in the afternoon. He’s been doing this since he was about 18 months. We co sleep, so it’s difficult i have to lie next to him and make sure we’re home, because he won’t nap in the pram, so it can feel quite isolating.
Because we co sleep, he naps in my bed, but he can get off it. If he doesn’t fall asleep, he ends up running around upstairs and pulling at things, which makes it even harder.
Today he woke up at 8:30am, so I wouldn’t usually try him for a nap until around 1:30–2pm, but then I worry he wouldn’t go to sleep at his normal bedtime. I bath him at 7–7:30pm and he’s asleep by 8pm, but he still wakes multiple times in the night for milk as well.
Do I just keep him awake and do bedtime earlier? I’m not sure what to do. I’m feeling really stressed with it.